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Is anyone scared this might happen to you?

dancinmyazoff Posted:

Is anyone scared this might happen to you?

I don't know about anyone else but when I'm nervous (especially in a situation where you're supposed to be quiet and put together) I sometimes will just start uncontrollably hysterically laughing. Like the tears coming down, can't breathe for five minutes kind of laugh. For the longest time I keep getting scared that I'm going to do that during my vows or during some really serious portion of our ceremony and embarrass myself. This seriously happens quite often. I'm sure it would be great comic relief and for some memorable moments...but for real I don't want this to happen and I can swear it's going to happen
MikeandJess Posted:

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maybe you can take a drug that'll calm your nerves. I'm not kidding, I think a lot of brides take valium or something but I would try it before hand and not test it the first day of your wedding (although I know your sensible enough to already know that I thought I'd just throw it out there)

bemyyoko Posted:

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oh my gosh! this happens to me too. my mom is convinced I'll never make it through my vows b/c i'll be laughing too hard.
she calls them 'giggle fits'
ShanonandSteve Posted:

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FH has this problem. and he said he thinks the same thing is going to happen to him.

kellybean Posted:

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I def have giggle fits....Im not sure what to do to stop them....though I am considering half a xanxa before the ceremnony lol
ant n tilde Posted:

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i got the giggles REALLY bad when we were taking e pics. . .it was terrible

i just hope i dont pass out. . .or break out into hives. . .
mirlynn324 Posted:

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

I don't know about anyone else but when I'm nervous (especially in a situation where you're supposed to be quiet and put together) I sometimes will just start uncontrollably hysterically laughing. Like the tears coming down, can't breathe for five minutes kind of laugh. For the longest time I keep getting scared that I'm going to do that during my vows or during some really serious portion of our ceremony and embarrass myself. This seriously happens quite often. I'm sure it would be great comic relief and for some memorable moments...but for real I don't want this to happen and I can swear it's going to happen



This happens to me at really bad times. When FH's grandma died, the priest kept mispronoucing her name and all of the sudden I just started hysterically laughing. I think it was just all the emotion of the day needed an outlet. I felt so bad.

I think I am either going to laugh hysterically down the aisle or cry hysterically. It's really a toss-up.
Dolce19 Posted:

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I get that too...it's like a nervous laugh. When we were reciting our vows DH was so serious that I almost started laughing. But when you are in the moment something else just comes over you. So, I wouldn't even worry about it.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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When I get nervous, I get like tunnel vision.. Cant see or hear anything else around me and after its all said and done, I cant rem how the hell I got to the end... I have real anxiety issues and plan on popping a pill (or half at least) just to ease the nerves. Or else the room will begin to spin and I will collapse. I'd rather have the giggles than dizziness
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

When I get nervous, I get like tunnel vision.. Cant see or hear anything else around me and after its all said and done, I cant rem how the hell I got to the end... I have real anxiety issues and plan on popping a pill (or half at least) just to ease the nerves. Or else the room will begin to spin and I will collapse. I'd rather have the giggles than dizziness



OMG i get that too!

the worse part is that my ears turn super red and my face is like ghostly white so its really obvious

i plan on getting some type of prescription before hte wedding and if i like how i feel on it then i will take it that day!
dancinmyazoff Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

i got the giggles REALLY bad when we were taking e pics. . .it was terrible

i just hope i dont pass out. . .or break out into hives. . .



OMG Tilde you bring me to another fear....when I'm nervous I also get blotchy on my chest and UGH that would look horrible in pics I wonder if I had my makeup artist put something on my chest it wouldn't show just in case that happened?
futuremrsfab Posted:

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my friend sarah is like you too & she was fine on her big day- a big glass of champagne cures anything
dajc23 Posted:

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I had this discussion with FH the other night actually. I told him I'm not sure how I'm going to be on the day of the wedding. I told him when those church doors open i'm either going to be hysterical crying (if my dad starts crying) or I'm going to lose control of myself and just bust out laughing til tears pour from my eyes. When i'm nervous I can go either way lol I dont know how its going to be with all those people staring at me!

catsgirl Posted:

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omg melissa, i do that too and i am worried to that i'll do that during my vows, i mentioned this to my co- worker, and her reply was that she could see me doing that, maybe its the name, were both melissa.

Autumn08 Posted:

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No caffeine, chocolate, or sugar pre-ceremony for you! LOL Chamomile tea the day of only!

dream426 Posted:

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My mom did that on her wedding day. I am afraid I will also.
lilangel369 Posted:

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umm ... a shot of whiskey might help *heehee*

Jesses Girl Posted:

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

I don't know about anyone else but when I'm nervous (especially in a situation where you're supposed to be quiet and put together) I sometimes will just start uncontrollably hysterically laughing. Like the tears coming down, can't breathe for five minutes kind of laugh. For the longest time I keep getting scared that I'm going to do that during my vows or during some really serious portion of our ceremony and embarrass myself. This seriously happens quite often. I'm sure it would be great comic relief and for some memorable moments...but for real I don't want this to happen and I can swear it's going to happen



HAHAHA kinda...i get like that..
i had that happen at my aunts wedding just recently and it made everyone around me start chuckling.. we couldnt understand the priest bc of his accent and like the child i am..i couldnt control myself..

i get u..but i think it would be funny~!! just dont cry from the laughin n mess of the $$ make up u had done
cbcf Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

i got the giggles REALLY bad when we were taking e pics. . .it was terrible

i just hope i dont pass out. . .or break out into hives. . .



OMG Tilde you bring me to another fear....when I'm nervous I also get blotchy on my chest and UGH that would look horrible in pics I wonder if I had my makeup artist put something on my chest it wouldn't show just in case that happened?



yup when i am nervous i get blotchy on my chest as well and i hate it and start scratching at my chest...ughh oh no i hope i dont do this ...and YES i am def a giggler. I giggle at anything...and I MEAN ANYTHING. I think I have a disease haha but seriously i am sooo nervous i am going to see FH all serious or he will make a face at me and i will start laughing. i already started laughing after i got home from booking my Hall because i was so excited that it was real.
dancinmyazoff Posted:

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Posted by lilangel369

umm ... a shot of whiskey might help *heehee*



This would be a great idea!

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