fh comes to every appt ....it can get annoying at times but i guess it is both our wedding
GiantsBride
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I was expecting FH to be more opinionated, but he's been so laid back that I also wish he had more input... actually, maybe not, because then that is when I don't get what I want.... i.e. my fav photographer Joel Greenberg!
beram63
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he agreed to fully handle dj and limo. that's enough for me.
Im a Pepper
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FH doesn't do the research and he's just recently been making the appointments since tax season is over. for my FH, he doesn't really care too much about everything and is happy to leave the planning up to other people. he's happy we're having a wedding and he's willing to give input but leaves most of it up to me.
lilmartha59
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i do all the research and we go to apts together but flowers will be all me lol
VickiR510
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Actually very helpful. Made some calls & asked alot of good Q's while at appts. He is interested in our wedding being perfect just as I am!
You have a different problem its not that he is not interested its that he has time issues. If you think you can do it alone great but maybe you rMOH would help u & go with u??? A second ear is always good. It picks up the things you may have missed. lol
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Posted by VickiR510
Actually very helpful. Made some calls & asked alot of good Q's while at appts. He is interested in our wedding being perfect just as I am!
You have a different problem its not that he is not interested its that he has time issues. If you think you can do it alone great but maybe you rMOH would help u & go with u??? A second ear is always good. It picks up the things you may have missed. lol
Absolutely...FH always picks up on things I missed as well as keeps me from shoutig 'I LOVE IT! we'll take it!' right away! Im such aan easy sale!
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FH only came to pick out the venue and the DJ appt. Otherwise he said everything is up to me....
I love doing it and i'm not complaining that he's not helping. i think he would give me stress.
Lisa218
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FH comes to bridal shows and appointments but doesn't do the research. He only really gives an opinion when he DOESN'T like something. The rest is up to me
eternitybride
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mine only went with me to Photography appointments, the rest he is leaving to me.
coley1027
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my fh doesnt do much research, but he does go to all appointments. hes only missed on dj appt due to his work schedule, but other then that hes been there for everything. hes usually pretty bored at the appts because i make all the decisions, but he wants to be there because as he says 'its our wedding' and wants to there for every part along the way
Soon2BMrsC09
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my FH works approx 60-70 hours a week - he has off only one day a week - and that day we spend with his daughter - so its difficult to go see vendors - he helps out when he can about ideas but for the most part he only went to see the vendors that i liked after i weeded out the garbage
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The only thing my FH wasn't interested in was flowers..besides that he has done research come to appts......sometimes he's a little too opinionated......sometimes a little too much
At times I find it helpful but at other times I'm like why can't he be like a regular groom and let me make all the decisions--lol ---you have to take the good with the bad I guess
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no research but he has gone on limo, RH and photo appts. he listens to me when i fill him in tho. his schedule is all ovr the place but he had reg days off for the most part, so i just scheduled them then. do your research and have a discussion, maybe he can help make decisions that way.
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Posted by Lisa218
FH comes to bridal shows and appointments but doesn't do the research. He only really gives an opinion when he DOESN'T like something. The rest is up to me
yeah, same here.
tinadansr
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yes he's been really good about all of it! and he has an opinion
chicky724
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FH has been really good... almost a little TOO good. I made up a list of all the places I wanted to go to and he called all of them to make the appts and came with me to all of them.
Actually we were just at the florist and I had to kick him to get him to stop talking!
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FH came with me to two bridal showcases and most of the RHs we checked out. He also met the priest with me, has been making phone calls and giving me his opinions. I wouldn't book a vendor without his input but if he can't be there for the contract signing, it's ok. My mom came with me when we booked the video/photog. I'm very impressed with FH. It's his wedding too.
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FH has been really good. He booked Duet while I was at work, has been researching limos, and has gone to every appointment with me.
Ann 52409
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he wasn't at first but now that it is becoming more real to himand we are getting ready to ask the bridal party he wants to be all involved... he wont even let me go see OOT hotels without him
