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Is it appropriate to include this note with the STD?

EGreene79 Posted:

Is it appropriate to include this note with the STD?

We are inviting 200 guests, and 140 of them are out of state. The hotels would only allow us to block 20 rooms at a time, but I want most of the guests to stay in the same hotel as us because we reserved a hospitality room for an after party.

Anyway, I want to add a note card with some hotel information such as the hospitality suite and shuttle will only be provided from one of the hotels, but I also want to express that the rooms are limited and if they don't book early, rooms aren't guaranteed. But I'm not sure if this is appropriate - I just know a lot of the older couples aren't as familiar with these room blocks. How does this sound:

THE BRIDE AND GROOM HAVE RESERVED ROOMS AT:
Hotel Name
Hotel Address
Hotel Address
Hotel Number

Group Booking Code: XXX
Room rate - $XXX per night, includes:
Shuttle to and from the Reception Hall
Hospitality Suite from 12am - 4am for post wedding gathering
Hot Continental Breakfast (eggs and breakfast meats in addition to standard continental)

Hotel B
Hotel Address
Hotel Address
Hotel Number

Group Booking Code: XXX
Room rate - $XXX per night, includes continental breakfast. Please note that shuttle service will not be provided between the Hotel B and Reception Hall.

Please note that a limited number of rooms have been reserved. Additional rooms will be blocked at these rates when the initial reservation is filled, availability permitting. All rooms will be released one month prior to the wedding.


OR, should I just rely on word of mouth? I'm just worried that FMIL's friends won't understand that they have to book in advance, and these hotels book up pretty fast - besides the fact that rooms are going to be blocked for all of the other weddings in the area.

ETA - I changed the title to make it more alluring
PegaLega Posted:

Re: Please Help With STD Wording

We are doing the same...sending STDsonly to those who wont be traveling from far...and then putting in cards with the hotel info in them for the OOT

EGreene79 Posted:

Re: Please Help With STD Wording

Thank you!

EGreene79 Posted:

Re: Is it appropriate to include this note with the STD?

Any other opinions?

Thanks!
siobhanB Posted:

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I think that sounds great... informative without being pushy... they should get it that they need to book soon or be on their own.

Bridelikewhoa07 Posted:

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i think its fine...u r just trying to help them out..hehehe! i was thinking of doing this too so thanks for the help! haha!

JGirl11297 Posted:

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I think that note sounds fine and I think you should send them out with your STD...we did!

0707Bride Posted:

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That sounds good to me!

jenn122397 Posted:

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it sounds fine because you need to let them no if they dont book teh room, they will not hold the reservation but its done in a classy way

heatherandrichie Posted:

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Posted by Bridelikewhoa07

i think its fine...u r just trying to help them out..hehehe! i was thinking of doing this too so thanks for the help! haha!


I agree, you're just trying to help them. And reasonable person should understand that. They know they need to move fast. If they 'snooze, they lose'.
lisalisa27 Posted:

Re: Is it appropriate to include this note with the STD?

I was asking the same thing but I think it would be okay. Im doing that because my guest need to book early and those who know they are coming they usually start making travel plans early so I think it is a good idea. I would just include the card from hotel with info and maybe the rest of the details later.

snydl40 Posted:

Re: Is it appropriate to include this note with the STD?

I think it's nice of you to provide this info with the STDs.

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