Is it just me?

Is it just me?

Oh goodness...I am getting married in 23 days and Im FREAKING out. Not about marrying him, not at all...but about the attention and the coordination. I just watched a wedding story and she was talking to him saying 'in only 3 days...' and I felt like vomiting. Nobody ever seems to be concerned about anything on these boards and I feel a little alone here I just dont like 150 people looking at me.

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Not just you...it terrifies me.....

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Me too and I have only 7 Days left until my wedding YIKES......

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i felt that way around the same time as you---its okay! you will be fine! just try and enjoy these last few weeks!

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Your not alone!!!! i'm totally Freaking out!!! Sometimes i hate being the center of attention!!!! I am so excited for the wedding, but the planning and all the attention really freaks me out!!

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I AM NERVOUS TOO AND THIS IS MY SECOND WEDDING..LOL...SO YOU ARE NOT ALONE SWEETIE. JUST TRY TO RELAX AND ENJOY YOUR DAY.

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I am totally with you on this one........it scares the heck out of me........

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You're definately not alone! My wedding is in just under 4 months now & I'm already freaked about the idea of 100+ people watching me walk down the aisle & watching our first dance & all of that. I have too much anxiety to have that many people focused on me

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I am having nightmares. So I know what you are talking about.

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Oh thank goodness ladies! Im not alone!!!

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I think I will be a nervous wreck!! It isn't just you-- I think we all try not to think about it --I know I try to fool myself into thinking i will be just fine

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You are not alone - having 300 ppl. staring at me gets me a little nervous even thought they are our friends & family......I think I'll be calm once FH and I do our first dance...I hope.

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you are not alone, thats what freaks me out also. Your day will be beautiful and everything will work out.

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I am nervous!!!!! I cant really explain why. Of course I want to marry him. I am not really shy. I am totally looking forward to the day - but on the other hand I am sooo nervous!

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I feel the same exact way. I hate the idea of all eyes on me so I keep telling my SIL who I call my sister that it's one big birthday party for her with me in a white dress since we are getting married on her birthday. The funny thing is she keeps telling herself that she's not turning 30 and she is just going to a wedding where a bunch of family will be. But trust me I worry about it all the time!

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I feel the same. I'm a total procrastinator so I feel like I need more time. I'm freaking out that I'm going to forget to do something important!

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I thought I was going to be a wreck.. but I thrived on everyone's eyes on me.. call me vain.. but I loved it!!!!

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I was fine....just the normal nervous feeling all morning long. When my BM's were walking down the aisle, I was still fine. As soon as they closed the doors and got my Dad and I in place, I felt like puking my gutts out! Seriously! The thought of walking down that aisle with ALL of those peopl staring at me was so nerve racking! BUT, the doors, opened and I had nothing but a CALM feeling go over me..........it was amazing!

It's normal to feel that way about being the center of attention.........it will be fine......

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I am sooo concerned with being the center of attention. I can't imagine over 200 people watching me.