or is anyone else feeling super stressed out? I wasnt feeling overwhelmed. I have a list, and have been checking things off left and right, and then a few days ago I started to feel off. On and off chest pain, dizzy, stomache ... its either anxiety or I am having a heart attack or a medical relapse!
Im freaking out now ... because I dont feel well! Help!
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or is anyone else feeling super stressed out? I wasnt feeling overwhelmed. I have a list, and have been checking things off left and right, and then a few days ago I started to feel off. On and off chest pain, dizzy, stomache ... its either anxiety or I am having a heart attack or a medical relapse!
Im freaking out now ... because I dont feel well! Help!
awwww... try to breath and take the time for yourself aside from wedding stuff. I had a panic moment... panic attack feeling and from then on I told myself.. ONE STEP AT A TIME... literally only try to keep your focus on one or 2 tasks at a time. It's def. anxiety. Everything will work out and the wedding will be amazing!!
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Im not a doctor or a nurse.. but I am a bride getting married 2 wks before you and I say its anxiety! I had a night when I couldnt sleep and my mind was racing with the 1 million things I needed to do. I got the exact same feeling. Deep breathes, close your eyes and slow down, fresh air also always relaxes me.
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Be happy and smile You're getting married soon!!! This will be the start of your life together don't be upset
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im seven months away and its a little too much pressure for me, and im having trouble sleeping and sometimes i even get impatient...
its horrible but just try and not look at everything so seriously..
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You are definitely just feeling very anxious because of how close to the wedding you are. I start getting like that every now and then but once I cross something else off the list I start to feel a little better about where we are in the planning. We still do have a lot to do but I try not to look at the list as a whole. I break it down into smaller increments (like only the things I plan to tackle this month - not the next 3 months). It helps me get things done quickly and in a way that I don't feel overhwelmed.
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find some alone time...breathe...and try some yoga or get a massage!!
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Awww.. try something called Ginger candy!!!! its for upset stomachs but also helped me with my anexity and my FH's sister was throwing up everyday at work and i gave her them and she is soooo much better!! Feel better!!! W.e needs to get done will get done
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Hey Girl!!! I am so sorry you are feeling like this. Wanna chat later? I am feeling stressed out too....to the point where it is depressing. If you need a shoulder to cry on or help with anything...please ask me and Ill help.
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And so it begins. Just about every single bride goes through this when it gets closer to their wedding date. I know the month before the wedding I cried all the time. I was so emotional and sad and stressed and annoyed over everything. At times I felt like it wasn't worth it and I just didn't even want to get married. 2 days before the wedding I cried tear tracks into my spray tan while I stayed up until 1 AM printing programs- I was a walking disaster.
But on the morning of the wedding, it was like none of that happened. I was so excited and full of energy and no nerves at all! I was completely relaxed and enjoyed my day to the fullest. I promise you that on your wedding day you will feel like a million bucks and all the stress and heartache over the past months will be well worth it. Good luck!!!
ETA: And take a break- delegate tasks. I mean I know it feels down to the wire, but take a couple days off of wedding planning. Your health is way more important!
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Hey Girl!!! I am so sorry you are feeling like this. Wanna chat later? I am feeling stressed out too....to the point where it is depressing. If you need a shoulder to cry on or help with anything...please ask me and Ill help. [/QUOTE
when i get a chance to breath im calling you and we're going out ... and eating something incredibly fattening! lol no more bowling though, i cant trust your fiance!
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but anywho, thanks girls. there was a death at the school i work at which also wasnt helping. ive just been overwhelmed despite getting things done. invite go out this week, i found tuxs and shoes for the bms so that was exciting yesterday. i dont know. i just feel like every time i cross something off there is a snag or a glitch. BLAH!
at least i know i am not alone and that i may have good company in the hospital if i end up there with my fellow LIW ladies lol
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Do something with your FH that is NOT wedding related. FH and I go to the park and played on the swings. It is something nice you and FH can do together that is fun but not stressful.
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Be happy and smile You're getting married soon!!! This will be the start of your life together don't be upset
While this is true, I found the last 4 months to be a rollercoaster. High anxiety time!!!!!!!! You WILL get through it though. Try to delegate and get as much done now as possible.
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Posted by blondybride
Be happy and smile You're getting married soon!!! This will be the start of your life together don't be upset
While this is true, I found the last 4 months to be a rollercoaster. High anxiety time!!!!!!!! You WILL get through it though. Try to delegate and get as much done now as possible.[/QUOTE
Thanks for posting this! I am beyond excited, am smiling and super happy! Im just also super stressed and I guess its taking a toll on my body!
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Thanks for posting this! I am beyond excited, am smiling and super happy! Im just also super stressed and I guess its taking a toll on my body!
It comes out in different ways with everyone - I didn't sleep nevermind the feeling that I hated everyone in my general vicinity!!!!!!! Its different for everyone - you will get through it though. If the anxiety gets too bad, see your GP - he/she may be able to give you something to help
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It's definitely anxiety. I started having those same feelings last week and I'm fine now!
