Is it just me noticing this..

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Posted by marymoon

As the official classless enforcer, I must tell you that we do not sanction or condone any personal attacks.

We do, however, take pride in laying the smack down every now and then when it needs to be laid.

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Well thats good to know...most people dont, I THINK and HOPE...



I do have to say that your wording is funny...I didnt know some had offical titles...

Can I be offical 'biotch'? I like that?

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Posted by lolita4life

i belive most of the time drama is caused by misunderstandings. its hard to interpret a post the way it was intended all the time. once one person gets offended its a chain reaction... then some people dont even realize that they couldnt have taken it more the wrong way at all.

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LOLOL..and there are the ones that are just plain black and white. They are rude and done with the sole intent to start drama!!!

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by lolita4life

i belive most of the time drama is caused by misunderstandings. its hard to interpret a post the way it was intended all the time. once one person gets offended its a chain reaction... then some people dont even realize that they couldnt have taken it more the wrong way at all.

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LOLOL..and there are the ones that are just plain black and white. They are rude and done with the sole intent to start drama!!!

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then obviously YOU are one of the people that tkae things the wrong way and dont fully understand the intention of the post!

nope i am definately not one of those people LOLITA..

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Posted by lolita4life

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by lolita4life

i belive most of the time drama is caused by misunderstandings. its hard to interpret a post the way it was intended all the time. once one person gets offended its a chain reaction... then some people dont even realize that they couldnt have taken it more the wrong way at all.

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LOLOL..and there are the ones that are just plain black and white. They are rude and done with the sole intent to start drama!!!

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then obviously YOU are one of the people that tkae things the wrong way and dont fully understand the intention of the post!

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I definitely think a lot of us have taken your posts 'the wrong way' lolita. I'm going to say what other people are thinking. Smetimes your posts (like the one about non brides and men) really seem like there's no purpose to them other than causing drama. Maybe you don't mean it this way. maybe you're just naive about online posting, but some people really do think you like to start it up. If this isn't the case (and I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt) just be more careful about how you word things. Everyone has people on the board they like and don't like, but lately it's turning into too much feuding, with claws out, and I'm definitely part of it...

Anyway, yes lolita, you do come off as a drama mama..but that may not be the case..if it isn't..just be more careful....

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Posted by oct.2004bride

nope i am definately not one of those people LOLITA..

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well IMO i dont think anyone really stars a topic with the intention of starting drama

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Posted by lolita4life

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Posted by oct.2004bride

nope i am definately not one of those people LOLITA..

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well IMO i dont think anyone really stars a topic with the intention of starting drama

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well i for one definately do think SOME (hint hint) do!

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Posted by marymoon

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Posted by lolita4life

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by lolita4life

i belive most of the time drama is caused by misunderstandings. its hard to interpret a post the way it was intended all the time. once one person gets offended its a chain reaction... then some people dont even realize that they couldnt have taken it more the wrong way at all.

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LOLOL..and there are the ones that are just plain black and white. They are rude and done with the sole intent to start drama!!!

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then obviously YOU are one of the people that tkae things the wrong way and dont fully understand the intention of the post!

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I definitely think a lot of us have taken your posts 'the wrong way' lolita. I'm going to say what other people are thinking. Smetimes your posts (like the one about non brides and men) really seem like there's no purpose to them other than causing drama. Maybe you don't mean it this way. maybe you're just naive about online posting, but some people really do think you like to start it up. If this isn't the case (and I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt) just be more careful about how you word things. Everyone has people on the board they like and don't like, but lately it's turning into too much feuding, with claws out, and I'm definitely part of it...

Anyway, yes lolita, you do come off as a drama mama..but that may not be the case..if it isn't..just be more careful....

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yes, i know im a known drama queen. but i swear i really DONT try to cause drama.... i admit though i totally cant control myself when someone offends me or whatever and i post back over and over again when i should just leave it alone....
as for the one about non-brides and men.... well first off, let me just put out there i didnt say ANYTHING about men.... that was started by someone else... but my intention of that thread... since i can hopefully explain myself and not get flamed for it was this:
i see some non-brides on here, right? ok... so i post asking why they choose a wedding forum of all forums to post on.... NOT thinking they were on here engaged and broke up or so forth..... i'm thinking that someone single randomly finds a forum and signs up even though it is intended for wedding planning... THATS what i was curios about.. i honestly have NO problem with them posting... i talk to many of them myself... i was just curious as to why they would choose LIW... but like i said, i wasnt thinking they have been here for awhile and were involved or whatever... i got my answer in like 2 replies and was like 'ok, cool..... that makes sense'... then someone said something like 'yea they shouldnt be able to post here...and neither should men' or something along those lines... anyway, so then all the guys and non-brides got offended and im sorry that had to happen.... but i SWEAR it wasnt intended like that at ALL. but then of course i added to the drama b/c i felt i was getting attacked (& admittinglywas) for somethign i just did not say... people actually thought that i belive that non-brides and men shouldnt post here.... and i SO dont feel that way!
it just definatly too ka turn for the worse. i wish that the topic starter could delete the topic! i wouldve done it by the 5th reply!
anyway, so i hope this makes sense to you.... and YES i def have to word things more carefully on here!

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Posted by oct.2004bride

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Posted by lolita4life

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Posted by oct.2004bride

nope i am definately not one of those people LOLITA..

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well IMO i dont think anyone really stars a topic with the intention of starting drama

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well i for one definately do think SOME (hint hint) do!

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i realize you think i intend to start drama... but i dont. sorry you feel that way.

well then i think you problem is lolita...you don't THINK..

Maybe you should try doing it before your posts...

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Posted by oct.2004bride

well then i think you problem is lolita...you don't THINK..

Maybe you should try doing it before your posts...

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Posted by skew

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Posted by Moehick

Don't get me wrong there are some rude mother f***ers on this site.

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well at least someone is balsy enough to say it to my face.

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Wasn't intending the comment for anyone in particular...just a general observation.

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i was half kidding. although i am sure MANY people on this board do think tht i am a 'rude mother f***er'.

Ok, I thought saying things plainly would help matters.

I didn't mean to call you out lolita... I'm just expressing what I feel is going on.

It IS really hard sometimes and I know I've been misinterpreted a lot... so sometimes there are things I just dn't post because I know they can be misread. I mean, just be careful...and I'm not big peacemaker here, you know I'm gonna be the first one (or one of the first) to call you out if I think you're starting some drama!

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Posted by kdelace

Hey, all I have been posting is about how I went on a date inthe city this past weekend and 'got some'- first time in several months!!! no negativty there!!!!

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we need more posts like this... JK (well.... maybe LOL)

but seriously.. good for you!!!!!

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by kdelace

Hey, all I have been posting is about how I went on a date inthe city this past weekend and 'got some'- first time in several months!!! no negativty there!!!!

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we need more posts like this... JK (well.... maybe LOL)

but seriously.. good for you!!!!!

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I'm with him!

Hugs for you K!

and you too Oct. . .

and all the biotches & drama mamas

we CAN all Co-Exist in the computer , I know we CAN!

(ok, I appolgize for the stupidity of this post)

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Posted by tourist
I'm with him!

Hugs for you K!

and you too Oct. . .

and all the biotches & drama mamas

we CAN all Co-Exist in the computer , I know we CAN!

(ok, I appolgize for the stupidity of this post)

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Heather, do not apologize .. i love the so-called 'stupidity' of your posts ... Lord knows I post about having a cow when I find raisins in my muffins ..

i esp love your avatar of the 'folder' ... that's the kind of nonsense I enjoy most on LIWs

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Posted by FeliciaDA

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Posted by tourist
I'm with him!

Hugs for you K!

and you too Oct. . .

and all the biotches & drama mamas

we CAN all Co-Exist in the computer , I know we CAN!

(ok, I appolgize for the stupidity of this post)

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Heather, do not apologize .. i love the so-called 'stupidity' of your posts ... Lord knows I post about having a cow when I find raisins in my muffins ..

i esp love your avatar of the 'folder' ... that's the kind of nonsense I enjoy most on LIWs

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OOoooh! she called your posts stupid. OOoooh, Im telling

now this is stupid

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by kdelace

Hey, all I have been posting is about how I went on a date inthe city this past weekend and 'got some'- first time in several months!!! no negativty there!!!!

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we need more posts like this... JK (well.... maybe LOL)

but seriously.. good for you!!!!!

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I also love these posts! but the only problem around here is that some people can post them and be congratulated and other people are called names over them.

Had to be said....