even if they're your nieces and nephews. I don't want kids running all over the place and I don't think the parents can really enjoy themselves. Am I right?
OctGroom
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it's not mean.. when I was a kid it happened to me and I still love those family members who didn't invite me.
It's your Wedding.. your rules.
Adults won't admit it.. but once the get a babysitter they enjoy the time alone and they cn party without having to be on watch for the little ones. Have a good time sans the kids!
Jordan
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Posted by JimmysBride
Posted by janwinterbridejoy i think a wedding is an adult affair.
Exactly. Only the kids in my bridal party will be at the wedding. And I chose those very carefully.
Same here.
AJsMommy122
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I have to say that IMO a wedding isnt an adult affair but a family affair - kids and all
luvsun27
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I have to say that IMO a wedding isnt an adult affair but a family affair - kids and all
I agree. I am having kids...and I didn't think it was worth the stress or the argument to exclude them. I hired 2 babysitters to come to the reception and hang out with the kids...and help watch them.
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I am not inviting kids for the reason that you don't want them running all over the place. I also think that the parents enjoy themselves more if they get toleave them home!!
fall2005bride
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Originally I only wantd Fh and My 2 daughters to be the only kids at the wedding-but Fh has 3 younger brothers(16,11 and 6) and he has a niece and nephew(1 and 3) and they have to be invited...But I'm nervous about it because I know for a fact that FMIL doesnt watch her younger kids good at all AND his 2 brothers dont watch their kids well either....I just dont want then running around like maniacs!
MCDO15
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the kids won't even remember the wedding and don't have a need to be there...
so your not mean
mskimmy98
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I feel the same way about kids running around at the wedding... I am only inviting the older kids 10 and up...
Some people have had problems with this but I don't care it is my wedding!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks girls, family have really been trying to make me out to be a bridezilla! If it was up to me I'd elope and then no-one would have to worry about kids, or adults for that matter!
alixgirl
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I don't think its mean. I love kids but on my wedding day I want to enjoy myself and party. I don't want to hear kids screaming. If people get pissed off then I'm sorry but it's our day and that's the way we feel.
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I'm not having children, thankfully there aren't too many real young ones in the family, as for my friends I wanted to give them a break and enjoy the evening without running and having to watch the kids!
Exactly, the little ones that are in the family would be a handful for their parents to watch and i would much rather see them enjoy themselves
Marisa&Brian
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It's not 'mean' at all ! - The only thing I would be weary of ......is inviting SOME people's childern and not others - that may cause a problem -
nan&dave
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We would invite children, but we can't because of $$$. It would add about 20-30 people to our guest list, and I'm already freaking out.
Charly
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I absolutely adore kids, but I'm not having any at my wedding. I don't think it's mean - it's a personal choice. My brother has 2 girls and he said if I let them come - he'd have to watch them all night, instead of having a good time at the wedding. I guess sometimes even the parents appreciate it!!! jmo
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We did invite our bridal party and close family with their children and left it up to them if they wanted to bring them or not. I think it's a personal preference though and since it's your wedding you have a right to do what you want.
Summer Bride
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I'm having my nieces and nephews because I am really close with them and they are in the bridal party. It wouldnt be the same without them there even though they are little.
didianita
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it's not mean, it's your choice, but not a lot of people will be happy about that. I didn't want any kids so my invitation said adult reception....even though that's what i wanted i have 10 kids coming!!!
