I feel like we are at each others throat. We just bought a house that needs A LOT of work, we ( I take that back I am) planning a wedding, I am teaching summer school and our e- party is Sept. Right now we are disgreeing about refinihsing floors. Is this normal or do i just need to relax? Has anyone had similar experiences? Or am I just crazy?!??
Bride2B93
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It is totally normal! You both have a lot on your plates right now! Don't worry, FH and I were going through that also (we are closing on our house next week and getting married in two weeks) it passes!! FM if you need to vent!!!
melanee
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of course it is normal...
fh and i actually aren't speaking to each other right now, because we got on each last night...
butterfly20
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definately normal, and healthy, if you dont say whats bothering you then it will bottle up and become worse
luckybride2004
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Totally Normal!!! It is so frustrating to fight (believe me, I know!!!) FH and I never fought before we got engaged. All of a sudden, the stress caused us to argue. You just have to take a step back sometimes and remember what brought you together in the first place
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i feel the same way...we are planning the wedding, i am in grad school and working summer schoo, and we just went into contract on a house.
we realize that we are fighting because of the stress and we try to be concious of it. he is much better at it than i am.
JRG71
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It is SO normal!!!! Lately we've been looking at each other like who are you? LOL!!!
janwinterbridejoy
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its very normal its a very stressful time.
SandraLynn
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Same here, and I don't like it, we (I) am planning the wedding, working 2 jobs, buying a house which was SO unexpected, and penny pinching and I miss him and us, I want US back--we are not fighting but we have sort of gone into our own little worlds to keep sane amongst the stress...
darly
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this seems to be the case w/ everyone I have spoken to--before the wedding you go thru 'issues' or times when you are ready to kill one another, but after the wedding you are back to normal... the planning up to the wedding, the few weeks before is hell...
stress is the worst... he's worried about a new job, being married in general, the fact that none of his guys have done anything for a bachelor party and getting the $ from his parents... and making sure he can make a living & that we won't be homeless - which is kind of ridiculous b/c he owns his own apt. and we can afford it, so when you are are stressed it can really snowball...
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Apparently it's normal. FH and I fought soooo much in the beginning of our engagement. Then it died down. Kicked up again during Pre-cana.... and lately, it's kicked up again, worse than ever!! You go through bouts... try to learn from each arguement. Try to really learn how to 'fight' without killing each other and learn how to resolve issues and communicate.
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it is normal and you will be doing it all up to the day of the wedding. after the wedding is over the fighting will cease some. right now you are planning a wedding and fixing up a new house. it can be stressful for some. don't fret it'll pass.
