Is it OK....

That I just put the rest of my plans off until February?

I still need...

Invitations
hair person
makeup person
flowers
Wedding bands
possibly Ketubah but not emergency b/c Rabbi will provide

I am just overwhelmed with everything - January looks like it will be as busy as December - EVERYONE's b-day in our family is that month - plus I work Saturdays, so every Sun will be a b-day thing, plus we are throwing a surprise anniversary party for my parents Jan 21!!!

February looks a lot calmer, but my wedding is June 17 - is that letting things go way too last minute - 4 mts????

You can definately wait! I am approaching the 3 month mark & still have TONS to do...All vendors are booked..

You sometimes need to step back especially when it gets stressful so that you don't make any rash decisions or get so fustrated with the planning!!!

I am more than stressed - the worry is consuming me - everytime I open my plan book, there is just pen and pencil from top to bottom - I work 3 jobs and go to school - but one of my jobs I am slowly phasing out the month of January so I can get my Sundays back!

I feel if I can just give myself a break, I will have a much better head for it...

I can definitely understand what you are going through! Taking a break is good. However, I would not wait too long with the major vendors (like flowers, hair/makeup). I only say this because they book up really fast. Everything else can wait. Above all, you have to take time for you!