Sure it's ok; it's actually recommended if the relationship has been a longstanding one.
Actually I think that's pretty cool on your part. Most girlfriends can agree that inviting them by name makes them feel good.
I think thats a great idea! It does also make the GF feel included by you, and not just as a guest.
Posted by tourist
absolutely! thats' what I am doing.
I have one tricky situation though- a gay friend, living with his boyfriend.
going by the rules, I'd send the invitation to both of them.
However, most of our friends don't know about this situation & he may not want to bring him
So, do I invite him & guess & leavbe it up to him? Isn't that insulting to the boyfriend?
And I don't really want him to bring a random freind.
(oops-I appologize for getting off your original topic)
I put my friends' girlfriends names on the invites and i got comments back on how happy they were
Posted by tourist
absolutely! thats' what I am doing.
I have one tricky situation though- a gay friend, living with his boyfriend.
going by the rules, I'd send the invitation to both of them.
However, most of our friends don't know about this situation & he may not want to bring him
So, do I invite him & guess & leavbe it up to him? Isn't that insulting to the boyfriend?
And I don't really want him to bring a random freind.
(oops-I appologize for getting off your original topic)
Posted by shelly3950
Posted by tourist
absolutely! thats' what I am doing.
I have one tricky situation though- a gay friend, living with his boyfriend.
going by the rules, I'd send the invitation to both of them.
However, most of our friends don't know about this situation & he may not want to bring him
So, do I invite him & guess & leavbe it up to him? Isn't that insulting to the boyfriend?
And I don't really want him to bring a random freind.
(oops-I appologize for getting off your original topic)
Talk to your friend and ask what he wants. THat;s the best way.
Posted by BMD'sPeanut
I have a gay friend who is not currently with anyone...I plan on inviting him without a guest...If as we get closer to the wedding date and he has a boyfriend, I will invite him (and put his boyfriends name on the invite..) I too do not want him bringing someone random.
Posted by tourist
Posted by BMD'sPeanut
I have a gay friend who is not currently with anyone...I plan on inviting him without a guest...If as we get closer to the wedding date and he has a boyfriend, I will invite him (and put his boyfriends name on the invite..) I too do not want him bringing someone random.
Are you inviting your straight single freinds with guest? We are so, my single gay freings are also invited with guest, but I have a not single gay friend that everyoen else thinks is a single straight friend.
Then defintely, ( back to you're original question) invite teh guy's with their girlffriends, nto & guset. I have gotten invititations like this before, to me, with Fh's name on the inside. that way, there were eno 'and guests' I need to make my minimmum, so I figured peopel can bring guests if they want. MOST of them won't bring a random person they met in a bar the day they got the invitaiton.
Posted by BMD'sPeanut
Posted by tourist
Posted by BMD'sPeanut
I have a gay friend who is not currently with anyone...I plan on inviting him without a guest...If as we get closer to the wedding date and he has a boyfriend, I will invite him (and put his boyfriends name on the invite..) I too do not want him bringing someone random.
Are you inviting your straight single freinds with guest? We are so, my single gay freings are also invited with guest, but I have a not single gay friend that everyoen else thinks is a single straight friend.
No. Unless they have a steady significant other, I am not inviting friends with guests...My wedding is not a social event free for all...I only want certain people there...
