I asked my unmarried best friend to be my maid of honor. But, my sister in law to be and I have been close for almost ten years. She is getting married this year and I want her to be the Matron. Do you think my Maid will be offended if I tell her that I want to include my sister in law as the Matron? She would still stand next to me and sign the license and everything.. I just want my sister to feel special and know that I love her too.. what do you think?
you can have 2 maids of honor (well, one maid & one matron)
yeah..but do you think my MOH would be offended that I ask my sister to be my Matron after I already asked her to be my Maid?
Yes it is fine, I'm have a Maid of Honor & a Matron of Honor
Posted by SummerBeauty
yeah..but do you think my MOH would be offended that I ask my sister to be my Matron after I already asked her to be my Maid?
i see no reason why she would be offended or upset! it's an honor to be a part of your wedding :)
It's def fine! If I were your maid of honor I wouldn't be offended at all.
Its totally fine!
I totally understand this. I am in fact using my best friend as my maid of honor and my sister-in-law as my Matron. I love them both so much and I never had a sister. They both are the closest things. They are both very happy and it was nice because my sis-in-law just had a baby and my best friend just bought a house. Probably helps to share the responsibility. I'm sure they love you and will be happy about your decision no matter what. Also, just because you've already asked one, doesn't mean you weren't already going to ask the other. Who has to know.
i think it's totally fine! she may even be relieved that she has someone else to help her out.
