To talk about the wedding at Thanksgiving this year. I want to talk to my FMIL about the guest list. Do it before or after Turkey day?
janelovesharry
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I say whenever she and you aren't super busy. I am sure that she is excited about it too and wants to talk about it Good luck!!
sk1nny27
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i dont think it will be rude especially b/c when ever i see my family they are the ones to bring it up at whatever function we are at. i say it will be fin. jmo
Swan06
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I asked myself the same question. I'm only going to talk about it if they ask.
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JCam695
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I would mention to her that you'd like to talk about it and ask her when is a good time.
Beth1210
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I don't think it's rude
I am sure it's all my family will be talking about
- unless you are going to ask her to pay for something- then I would time it out
cindyandkevin
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Honey, we got engaged last Thanksgiving so if it's rude to talk about the wedding then we've already committed a major faux pas!!
Seriously tho, I'm sure everyone will understand that you're excited about your wedding and will want to talk about it. And they'll be anxious to hear about your plans, just don't over-do it. Feel out the crowd and you can decide how much talk is appropriate.
EMES2006
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It's not rude at all. She might be looking forward to talking about it. But considering how hectic that day can get, she might not be prepared with a list. If she's hosting, or busy in the kitchen, don't get offended if she can't give you her undivided attention. Holidays are a stressful time for everyone. I say gauge the situation and bring it up when she's not frazzled!!
idovig
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I don't think it's rude
AlliNMatt06
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I wait for another day, she might be really busy. Plus, isn't there going to be alot family around.
MrsH1156
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My Wedding is the main topic of conversation in both families right now so I'm sure it will come up. If I don't bring it up, someone else will! I say talk about it all you want to...it's your day and I'm sure you're Thankful for your FH, right? Therefore it's related in my mind.
sarahbelle
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I would imagine that the wedding will come up anyway. I don't think it would be rude to talk about it.
