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Is it too late?

kkss1419 Posted:

Is it too late?

It seems most of you have sent out your STDs. I had waited for 2 reasons. 1st I had read somewhere (the knot I think) that you aren't supposed to send them out more than 6 months before and 2nd I wanted to use our engagement pics for them. We are taking our engagement pics on Sunday, but now I'm thinking I waited to long to send them out. What do you guys think?

mrspalomino148 Posted:

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I sent mine out about 6 months ahead of time.. so you defiantly have time... We had a lot of OOT guests and I wanted them to be able to make travel arrangements.. but you can send them really any time you want

MikeandJess Posted:

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you're fine, my book of wediquette says you should send them out 6 - 9 months in advance

gemini515 Posted:

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dont worry what the other lovely ladies have done. You can send your STD now it is not too late. Look on the bright side you did not send it 2 months before the wedding. HTH

bemyyoko Posted:

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i have read and been told that STD's should be sent out 6-12 months in advance.

I sent mine 9 months in advance.

kkss1419 Posted:

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Posted by futuremrspalomino

I sent mine out about 6 months ahead of time.. so you defiantly have time... We had a lot of OOT guests and I wanted them to be able to make travel arrangements.. but you can send them really any time you want



That's the only reason I wanted to do them. Alot of FHs family is OOT. We are blocking off rooms and I felt sending STDs with the hotel info would be the best way to get the word out to them. I am almost at the 7 month mark. I just didn't want to send them out and have people think it was strange that I sent them so late.
minibride08 Posted:

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I think you can still send them out. May is a popular time and remember they won't get an invite until approx. 3 months before. And, STD is a nice momento- esp. with an epic!

JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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no it's not too late at all!! we sent ours out earlier b/c our wedding is memorial day weekend. if it weren't a holiday weekend i would have waited until november.

Brian and Marie Posted:

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You're not too late at all!!! My wedding was this past July and I sent mine out in Jan (exactly 6 months in advance)!

klovess14 Posted:

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I'll be sending mine out at the end of November. Approx 10 months from our wedding.

Papillon25 Posted:

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I would try to send them soon - definately before the end of this year. Around the end of the year is when people start to talk about vacations for next year. If they need to travel for your wedding, they need to factor the cost into their plans and also make sure not to schedule something else for that same weekend.

drpepper318 Posted:

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You're fine! It's not too late at all. Try to get them out before the end of Oct. if you can.

jerrys girl Posted:

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i placed my order last week. they should arrive next week. this weekend is 8 months, so i will send them out with the next 2 weeks hopefully. i have a bunch of oot'ers and a lot of people don't know i am getting married, even though i have been engaged over a year.

mariaobride Posted:

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I don't think it is too late at all. You might as well wait to use the e-pics those will look so gorgeous for your STD's.

hyphenbride Posted:

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We're sending ours out probably about 11-12 months ahead of time. However, we'd normally wait a while but a lot of FH's friends are in residency (doctor training post med school) and have to make up their schedules about a year in advance. It's also difficult to get weekends off sometimes, so we wanted to give them A LOT of notice. Otherwise, we probably would have waited until 6 months or so ahead of time.

AS Posted:

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I have not sent them out yet. I will maybe in Oct or early NOv. I know which ones I want but Im just soo lazy to do anything, I will start soon though

Teamhurldon Posted:

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i sent mine out 10 months ahead of time.... girls ya gotta do what you want to and not worry about 'rules'......

LeslieMike Posted:

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I felt the same way, I wanted to send them out a year in advance, then I was waiting to get some good photos of us, then I never took any new pics, so I felt pressured, now its less than 8 months away, and I finally designed my own and just ordered them. Probably get them out at the 7 month mark.

SugaBeans Posted:

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you can send them out whenever you want. I always thought a year was good this way they had A LOT of notice. good luck with your e-pics!

Yazmin1135 Posted:

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You have time to send them. My wedding is in June & I have the STD's but I'm still working on getting the list finalized & getting together some addresses.

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