Is it too much to ask?

Tromsugar2b Posted: Feb 08, 2011 08:46 PM

Is it too much to ask?

That the groom and groomsmen keep their jackets on at the wedding if they're NOT wearing vests?

bartgirl12 Posted: Feb 08, 2011 08:49 PM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

I'd personally rather the guys not sweat everywhere and start to stink from sweat, but instead enjoy themselves and have a great time. Pictures will be more fun during the dancing!

BlushandBashful Posted: Feb 08, 2011 08:53 PM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

Posted by bartgirl12

I'd personally rather the guys not sweat everywhere and start to stink from sweat, but instead enjoy themselves and have a great time. Pictures will be more fun during the dancing!

Exactly this. I think it would be kinda mean to ask them not to take their jackets off. It's gets SUPER hot on a packed dance floor! And you don't want your guys to sit the whole night because they are overheating!!

angelscri Posted: Feb 08, 2011 09:02 PM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by bartgirl12

I'd personally rather the guys not sweat everywhere and start to stink from sweat, but instead enjoy themselves and have a great time. Pictures will be more fun during the dancing!

Exactly this. I think it would be kinda mean to ask them not to take their jackets off. It's gets SUPER hot on a packed dance floor! And you don't want your guys to sit the whole night because they are overheating!!

This

kshea23 Posted: Feb 08, 2011 09:03 PM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by bartgirl12

I'd personally rather the guys not sweat everywhere and start to stink from sweat, but instead enjoy themselves and have a great time. Pictures will be more fun during the dancing!

Exactly this. I think it would be kinda mean to ask them not to take their jackets off. It's gets SUPER hot on a packed dance floor! And you don't want your guys to sit the whole night because they are overheating!!

yeah I have to agree.

Im getting Married Posted: Feb 08, 2011 09:05 PM

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I wouldn't want them to be uncomfortable

KrisCharl Posted: Feb 08, 2011 09:29 PM

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i just want them to keep it on for pictures, then i dont care - just want everyone to be comfortable :)

bartgirl12 Posted: Feb 08, 2011 09:31 PM

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yeah, I agree that for pictures it should stay on but after that, it's a free for all! :)

JessNicole7EM Posted: Feb 08, 2011 10:06 PM

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I think it is too much to ask.

Picutres and reception entrance, yes obv. but not during the reception and dancing and such

AugustFeather Posted: Feb 08, 2011 10:09 PM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

I think its bizarre to even think anyone SHOULD keep it on the entire time. Unless you are super formal with minimal dancing and activity then I guess,.. if you are having a DJ it doesn't make sense to me, sorry. I would let your FH handle this aspect.

Soon2bMrsB91511 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 12:15 AM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

If it were me, I would never put this burden on anyone. Especially people in the BP that are supposed to be treated like your special guests.

No one wants to be at a boring, stuffy, wedding where everyone is prim and proper the whole time.

I would def agree that they should be wearing their jackets during pics and obv the ceremony, but once the party begins, everyone should have an opportunity to let their hair down!

They'll have more fun and enjoy the party much more if they're comfortable and not sticky and sweaty...

I don't even expect FH to keep his jacket on once the party gets going!

adelya21 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 01:35 AM

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yep exactly! hopefully they will be dancing. noone wants sweaty pissed of groomsmen lol

Posted by KrisCharl

i just want them to keep it on for pictures, then i dont care - just want everyone to be comfortable :)

fdnybride163 Posted: Feb 09, 2011 07:28 AM

Re: Is it too much to ask?

im going to have a hard enough time getting FH to not wear his reefs at the alter, let alone keep a tuxedo jacket on all night!

all the other guests will have their coats off dancing, and if all the pro pics are done, there is not an issue w them relxing ... helll Ill prob want to take my darn dress off by the time the dancing starts!

anjelagain Posted: Feb 09, 2011 07:30 AM

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maybe just ask them to keep them on during the first dance and like, the cake cutting, otherwise.....

rosatemp Posted: Feb 09, 2011 07:33 AM

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Posted by kshea23

Posted by BlushandBashful

Posted by bartgirl12

I'd personally rather the guys not sweat everywhere and start to stink from sweat, but instead enjoy themselves and have a great time. Pictures will be more fun during the dancing!

Exactly this. I think it would be kinda mean to ask them not to take their jackets off. It's gets SUPER hot on a packed dance floor! And you don't want your guys to sit the whole night because they are overheating!!

yeah I have to agree.

So do I...you really cant ask them to keep it on they should be able to be comfy and have fun