Is It True...?

That's how we were too, but there's just some random day we'll get in a fight about the dumbest thing ever.... and it's starting to bother me... we NEVER had that issue in the past...

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Posted by Dani777

I've heard soo many times that as you get closer to the big day, you and your FH will slowly and not purposly start to build this 'wall' between the two of you - and there will just be stress more then usual? Anyone else expirence ths....? If so, when? Just want to make sure that I'm just not totally going insane. LOL. Thanks.

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ummm yes.

Around the end of December, beginning of January and right up until the wedding I drove DH crazy and he and I fought SO MUCH (over the dumbest things too!!). There were points where I would say to myself, 'are we doing the right thing?' and then there would be days where he would say 'Forget this whole wedding completely!!'

It was not that we didn't love each other, but the stress of completing SO MUCH, paying for it all and making sure to still take care of other everyday things can sometimes be VERY overwhelming. So DON'T worry! It will pass!!! TRUST ME! xoxo

Dani, I def. think the stress of the wedding and paying the bills off has to do with it. FH and I last month started arguing over the dumbest things!!!!!!!! Right now we are doing great again, but I know once there is a money issue or we have to find out how we are going to make that payment, the arguing is going to start again. I def. realized it was the stress of the money/payments because last month a lot had to be paid. After it was over (for the time being) we went back to our normal ways. I'll have to admit, I was def. being b*tchy too bc i was stressed out.... so its not one sided lol I think as the wedding gets closer and the payments are going to be more frequent, I feel like its going to get worse.

You def. are not the only one going through this whether people want to admit it or not... its not all roses and sunshine LOL!!!!!!!

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Posted by Dani777

Glad to know I'm not alone...B/c these last two weeks have been NOTHING but stress....and I was really starting to think 'are we doing the right thing'... Sooo much is due and not just wedding related...AUGH. lol. I know itll pass but after 5 years of never dealing with this...it's just hard. Oy

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Yes, I def. think it will pass and you will get through it. Also, try to take notice when your arguing starts and what payments are due. I started to notice the stress building when payments were due and then other bills needed to be paid. You two are def. going to make it together... these are just small bumps in the road that will pass

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Posted by xosweetiexo

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Posted by Dani777

Glad to know I'm not alone...B/c these last two weeks have been NOTHING but stress....and I was really starting to think 'are we doing the right thing'... Sooo much is due and not just wedding related...AUGH. lol. I know itll pass but after 5 years of never dealing with this...it's just hard. Oy

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Yes, I def. think it will pass and you will get through it. Also, try to take notice when your arguing starts and what payments are due. I started to notice the stress building when payments were due and then other bills needed to be paid. You two are def. going to make it together... these are just small bumps in the road that will pass

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Thanks for all your kind words...I know that they will pass. And it's not like it's even that bad right now... it's just the back and forth that we do from time to time now. Not like we scream at eachother or anything, but it's justbeen getting under my skin. Thanks!

aww honey i guarantee its just the stress of the money being due and then you have the house/apt hunt to worry about on top of it. I'm sure everything will be fine.

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Posted by Dani777

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Posted by xosweetiexo

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Posted by Dani777

Glad to know I'm not alone...B/c these last two weeks have been NOTHING but stress....and I was really starting to think 'are we doing the right thing'... Sooo much is due and not just wedding related...AUGH. lol. I know itll pass but after 5 years of never dealing with this...it's just hard. Oy

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Yes, I def. think it will pass and you will get through it. Also, try to take notice when your arguing starts and what payments are due. I started to notice the stress building when payments were due and then other bills needed to be paid. You two are def. going to make it together... these are just small bumps in the road that will pass

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Thanks for all your kind words...I know that they will pass. And it's not like it's even that bad right now... it's just the back and forth that we do from time to time now. Not like we scream at eachother or anything, but it's justbeen getting under my skin. Thanks!

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Your welcome
I totally know what you mean, like the nit picking and the little snotty comments lol Ohhhh trust me, I know

Thankfully we haven't really started to bicker however my patience has virtually disappeared. FH may try to joke about something and my mind is elsewhere and I feel as if I don't have time for that.

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Posted by coldasice217

Aww Dani, don't feel bad, it's totally normal. Me and FH go through this NOW, and we're still so far away. But that's just our personalities...we're both extremely feisty and stubborn and Mediterranean hahaha. It doesn't mean we love each other any less. Stress will definitely do that to you, it's completely normal. I can promise it will be fine.

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Thanks Ali... I know it'll pass... We're both just always do sooo much that it's difficult...but I know it will only make us stronger!

i have never heard that..i hope its not true..i think this wedding has brought us closer but we r still 8 months away