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Hannah38 Posted:

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email ppl who hasn't RSVP'd? It's due tomorrow and we still haven't heard back from 50+ ppl.

Why is it so hard to write a name and check on an appropriate box?

NY031978 Posted:

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i think you have time. The day mine were due i had 80 ppl still missing!! 1 week later I still had 35!! Its crazy...i mean come on ppl we prepaid a stamp for ya!!
MeNBobs Posted:

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They are rude for not replying. Wait a week after the RSVP date then call them.

olechka1911 Posted:

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No, it is not wrong at all

You should not be concerned if it is wrong or not, THEY should be ashamed for not following up!!

E-mail, call them, do whatever ! What matters is that you need to know who is coming to your wedding
Tiggeruth Posted:

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I would wait until a few days after your RSVP date to start calling people. I think it might make you look a little bad, desperate to start calling people when if they mailed it within the last few days it could be enroute to you.

It *****, but just be a little patient and at least give people until if they mailed it on the last possible day or it to have arrived before harassing them.
NowAndForever2012 Posted:

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I would give them a call in about a wekk if your still have not heard from them.

JAME0801 Posted:

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Today is 1 week past the response date and we're still missing about 4 responses. I'm not tracking them down because honestly it's rude. Two of the responses are my uncle and 1 cousin (haven't seen them in ages but thought I'd do the right thing by inviting them). Anyway, screw it. I'm doing my tables this weekend.

AlmostKulak Posted:

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I would wait a few days after your RSVP date and then try to conact them.

Future Mrs. Posted:

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give them an extra week after the date. Then contact them by whatever mode of communication you usually use with them. Email is fine.
melbalalala Posted:

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Do it. My date is tomorrow too and I emailed people all week and I pretty much am done
PegaLega Posted:

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I would wait until a week after and then email or call

LaurenF Posted:

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go for it. if you're afraid you're being rude, don't worry about that----THEY'RE rude for not replying in time.

Marchbride07 Posted:

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I agree with the others and I would wait a week or so and then start calling and emailing them...

happygirl07 Posted:

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A week post RSVP date is good to contact them.

angelosgirl Posted:

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I here you I am getting married on the same day and I still have 50+ outstanding responses :(

snydl40 Posted:

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I would call everyone on Monday though. Give them through the weekend.

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