Brides Helping Brides ™ - Is something wrong with me?

Post new topic

Wedding Forums > Brides Helping Brides ™ > Is something wrong with me?

Is something wrong with me?

bridget&jimmy Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:31 PM+

bridget&jimmy MEMBER SINCE: 6/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2571 WEDDING DATE: Nov 19, 2005

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:31 PM

Is something wrong with me?

My eparty is this weekend and people keep asking me are you excited yet. And while I am excited I am not over excited. I just feel like I have so much left to do, and I thought I was so organized and that everything was done. But yet their is so much to do. I feel more overwhelmed then anything. Is something wrong with me?

Bridget

white-wolf Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:37 PM+

white-wolf MEMBER SINCE: 3/03 TOTAL POSTS : 679 WEDDING DATE: Jul 25, 2004

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:37 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

No...there is nothing wrong with you... I think when you have a lot of stuff to do, especially with wedding plans, its kind of hard to get excited b/c you are all preoccupied with things having to get done and get done right. That's one big stressor right there. I'm sure you are excited in your own way, sometimes we just dont show it. I kind of feel the same way... excited, not overly excited b/c of all the stuff I still have to do.

xjulietx Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:51 PM+

xjulietx MEMBER SINCE: 4/03 TOTAL POSTS : 6638 WEDDING DATE: Jun 20, 2004

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 01:51 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

Nothing wrong with you at all. Some people are easily excited whereas others are overwhelmed and won't get excited until they get closer to the wedding.

You'll get excited in time. For now you are preoccupied.

Scoop Posted: Sep 25, 2003 02:58 PM+

Scoop MEMBER SINCE: 5/02 TOTAL POSTS : 3687 WEDDING DATE: Nov 02, 2002

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 02:58 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

nothing is wrong with you...everyone is different in how they hangle their 'big' day.....just enjoy yourself.

peabody Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:01 PM+

peabody MEMBER SINCE: 7/03 TOTAL POSTS : 3194 WEDDING DATE: Oct 01, 2004

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:01 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

Bridget,

No, there is nothing wrong with you. I felt overwhelmed also, especially the day of the party, until the party started. Then I began to have fun! You will get that really excited feeling when your first guest arrives!

No worries! Just enjoy your party with your friends and family!

Tara

bridget&jimmy Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:06 PM+

bridget&jimmy MEMBER SINCE: 6/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2571 WEDDING DATE: Nov 19, 2005

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:06 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

Thank you girls, I just felt like something was wrong because when people ask and I say yay they look at me funny and say you dont seem to excited. I am excited in my own way I just can not wait for everything to be put together so I can see everything.

Bridget

gailb Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:29 PM+

gailb MEMBER SINCE: 5/03 TOTAL POSTS : 170 WEDDING DATE: May 29, 2005

Posted: Sep 25, 2003 03:29 PM

Re: Is something wrong with me?

There is DEFINATELY nothing wrong with you.

I think once the party starts you will feel all the emotions that they are talking about. And, even if not, people are different and experience things differently. People alway tell me I react unexpectadly to almost every situation. I wasn't exited about my eParty... but I am excited about the Wedding