is there any housework

is there any housework

you dont let dh or fh do?


i dont let dh do laundry , he always messes it up, plus i am a little ocd about how i want things folded

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He can do what ever he wants. I have 'Trained' him so now I dont have to do it!

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I'm OCD about all housework so I just do it all. He can take care of mowing the lawn and all the heavy lifting and fixing stuff.

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I dont feel too comfortable about him doing the house work, it always end up half finished, and him staring into the tv cause the baseball game is on.

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he only throws out the trash ... he allergic to washing dishes ... oh yeah he will sweep and mop on his days off but thats it

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I have a feeling I will be doing most things b/c I am waaay too OCD to let the dishes sit in the sink for a long period of time, for example! FH will do chores (he lived on his own so he does everything) but at HIS leisure... my OCD isn't gonna be okay with that

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No way i let him do whatever he wants, I appreciate all the help I can get!!

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I don't let him clean the utencils. When he puts them in the dishwasher they come out with food still stuck to them, when he does them by hand they're usually only clean on the front but not the back side. We have really shiny new utencils and instead of seeing them get spotty or scratched, I just wash them by hand myself.

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i'll take any help i can get. his crap is everywhere!

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I love when he helps with anything, except the dishes. I don't think he loads the dishwasher properly, and so some dishes don't get washed.

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I like to Vaccuum! I feel like i do a better job and that he will miss some dog hair!! LOL

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Laundry. the whites come out grey.. the dark colors come out all pilled. he folds them when its still damp!! ***??? And anytime I say anything, he gets so mad, its hysterical. I dont know who taught him...

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Actually, we have the exact opposite....I have a tendency to break things when cleaning... I'm a little rough to say the least. In the last year I managed to: kill a 1 year old vacuum (overheated...I think, don't know why) , I broke my glass table (with the vacuum), I broke 1 plate (everyday setting), 1 Coffee pot, 1 bowl (everyday setting), 1 glass (crystal ) while washing the dishes - all on different occasions, I broke my TV stand door in half (trying to put it together....) so it has no doors now ....I said it was 'extra' LOL, & just last week - I killed my frig (being impatient) I used a knife & a hammer to break off a piece of ice (I didn't feel like manual defrosting it)...& yes, I accidentally stabbed the coolant box....I'm what you call 'Domestically Challenged'

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Wash the floor. He did it ONCE as a surprise and oh god, the poor thing. I had to wait for him to leave so I could do it over. It was all cloudy and streaked and smeared.

Still the fact that he tried was sweet.

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yea FH doesnt do any laundry ;) - the bleach 'accident' was something to be remembered not repeated...

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Posted by Soon2BMrsC09

yea FH doesnt do any laundry ;) - the bleach 'accident' was something to be remembered not repeated...

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Sometimes I wonder if they f*ck shlt up or make mountains out of molehills for the sole purpose of never being asked to do it again


(My FH is an awesome laundry bltch by the way!)

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I'll be happy if FH wants to be the dishwasher, lawn cutter, garbage-thrower-outer, fixer-upper and mopper. I love cleaning and couldn't give him tasks like the bathroom, vacuuming or dusting...those are for me! lol

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I don't let him do laundry or none of my clothess would fit. I've taught him how to do everything else properly!