Is there someone in your life..

Is there someone in your life..

Who consistently misses your b-day???

I do...and it really pisses me off...I said something 2 years ago and then she felt bad and remembered it the following year BUT this YEAR NO CALL..nothing I am really pissed and this happens ALMOST every year

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Oh, I'm sorry this happened, try not to let it spoil your birthday. I know how you feel; I too have someone who misses my birthday. To makes matters worse, it's a member of my immediate family. I've gotten to the point that I don't allow it to get to me anymore. Yes, there have been a few years where they remembered but now it's going back to the same old, same old. I find it annoying, rude and completely inconsiderate. I always think about not acknowledging their birthday but I never actually go through with it.

Cheer up

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YES!! My future bro and sis in law, errr mind you fsil dropped out of my wedding party on tues.

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aww that *****

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i dont know if it bothers me... i look at it as a suprise if someone does call to wish me a happy birthday... the only people that i would be upset with if they missed it would be FH, my mom and some other close family members...but whenever a friend calls it is like a special bonus...

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Yes FI family has no idea when my B-day is nor do the care!

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Posted by Steph62406

Yes FI family has no idea when my B-day is nor do the care!

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Thats so horrible

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I may be in the minority but the only person I expect to remember my bday is the woman who gave birth to me and the man I share my bed with. Everyone else is incidental. I dont remember birthdays and I dont care if people dont remember mine.

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Kathleen it used to really bother me when close friends didn't remember. Yet I find myself forgetting my close friends' bdays sometimes as well & remembering the next day, like OMG! Although I do my best to remember and call or send a card.

I have a friend that every single year calls me on July 3 & July 5 b/c she cannot remember (which I find as cute).

I hope you didn't let this ruin your birthday. I'm sure she cares Kathleen....she'll probably be real upset when she realizes she missed it.

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She ended up calling me late last night So she remembered.....I really thought she had forgotten...

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i do.....my own god father cant remember my brithday...and he didnt even send me a congrats card for my engagement.....uuurrrgghhhhhh

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LOL, so sorry to hear this. Some people are just bad with dates. Dont take it to heart! Enjoy your special day with or without a phone call from that person!

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Oh yes, and I am this persons maid of honor!!! I am supposed to be her best friend and for years she never either remembers or she doesn't want to get me a present!

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yea that is good!!!!!! Better late than not at all

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yes and what pisses me off more is when you remember that person bday and send a card/call etc...then one yours comes nadda!!!

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Yes...it's one of my BM. But that's okay. I have missed hers a time or two.

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