I have no desire to plan this wedding anymore. All I care about is getting married to my man. I wish we could just cancel everything, take the money and go to Hawaii to get married. Ugh, I don't know. I just don't care about all these little things. Isn't it supposed to be about us and our love and our happiness, not everyone/ everything else?
sorry, just venting...thanks for listening
cdh2672
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Ahh, I feel you! I was there many times, I said about 1000 times we should've went away. The closer you get to your big day, the better you will feel with your decision to have a wedding. It will all work out and you will have a wonderful wedding no matter what b/c you love each other --- it's going to be spectacular!! don't listen to other people, just do what makes YOU both happy ...
My advice is to take some time off from planning and just spend time with your FH. It definitely helps. I took the whole month of December off! haha
tara5533
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Oh I know how you feel you just need to breathe and just know that it is about the two of you and no one else can ruin your day and thats all
Karrie D
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TRUST me when I say I know exactly how you are feeling. I am just not feeling planning anymore. I have thought about calling up the venue and cancelling a few times but at the end of the day I want to get married in my dream dress with all of our family and friends there. You'll get past this feeling. Just hang in there!!
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I logged in just to reply to this! I've been MIA from here for a month or so. I'm so over this wedding planning thing too! I just want to be married and go to Hawaii.
Plus, lately FI and I can't agree on anything wedding-related, every last cent goes to the wedding and FMIL questions all my decisions. I'm right there with you.
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Posted by Karrie D
TRUST me when I say I know exactly how you are feeling. I am just not feeling planning anymore. I have thought about calling up the venue and cancelling a few times but at the end of the day I want to get married in my dream dress with all of our family and friends there. You'll get past this feeling. Just hang in there!!
LOL, my dress is the only thing that gives me comfort anymore
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I legit woke up the other day and said I want to do a destination wedding. And then I realized how much we would lose in deposits and changed my mind
renrico
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Thanks guys. I felt alone in it, this made me feel a bit better. I have no desire to DIY right now. I just want someone else to do it, haha. I just want to marry him and start our lives together. We wanted a destination wedding when we first talked about everything, but then family convinced us to have it here and now it is just spiraling out of control. I'm overwhelmed with everything. Money is also a factor, stressing us both out. I haven't had any desire to even be on this website either, just didn't want to respond to anything. I think I do need a month off from this all, haha. Thank you guys!!!!!
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Posted by kkbride
Posted by Karrie D
TRUST me when I say I know exactly how you are feeling. I am just not feeling planning anymore. I have thought about calling up the venue and cancelling a few times but at the end of the day I want to get married in my dream dress with all of our family and friends there. You'll get past this feeling. Just hang in there!!
LOL, my dress is the only thing that gives me comfort anymore
Same here! I want to wear my DRESS!!!!
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been there!
Fianag24
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definetly happens to me sometimes but will hopefully all work out and in the end it will be an amazing day that we will remember forever.
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Posted by renrico
Thanks guys. I felt alone in it, this made me feel a bit better. I have no desire to DIY right now. I just want someone else to do it, haha. I just want to marry him and start our lives together. We wanted a destination wedding when we first talked about everything, but then family convinced us to have it here and now it is just spiraling out of control. I'm overwhelmed with everything. Money is also a factor, stressing us both out. I haven't had any desire to even be on this website either, just didn't want to respond to anything. I think I do need a month off from this all, haha. Thank you guys!!!!!
This is exactly how I feel!! It's so overwhelming but it will be worth it in the end. I just want to get married to the man I love and wear my dress LOL
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I stepped away from my planning for 2 months. Between the decisions and the expense i questioned if this was what i wanted. I'm back in full swing and looking forward to the day.
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Oh thank god, I feel less crazy now that I see other people feel the same way.
pauladanielle
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That happens to me about once a week, and a lot of it's money related. I am an extremely detail-oriented person so before I make any decision I pour over a budget and it just drives me crazy before I make any decision. First it was the venue, and I decided there couldn't possibly be a venue that could be what I wanted in my budget and then it was the photographer and...
Yup. Sometimes I just want to elope. But then I remember that I really wanted my day, and that I'd regret it if I didn't embrace it.
You'll have a beautiful day and you'll feel better :)
