is this brideszilla? update

is this brideszilla? update

I had my FH talk to his sister, about her hair. So basically she wanted a bribe (money), not to color her hair until after the wedding. I am not really into bribes but 50 bucks is worth having her not color her hair. I also talked to her and offered to pay for her hair the day of the wedding, but she told me she would never let someone do her hair lol. So at least she is going to have purple hair. A messed up haircut but not purple, its a step in the right direction. Thanks everyone for the advice.

Re: is this brideszilla? update

I think that you should let her do whatever hair color she wants! That is who she is that anyone who enters your life while you are with your FH will understand that. I get that you're worried about pics but who cares.. you will look beautiful no matter what. The last thing you want is to let someone have something that they can hold over your head on your wedding day!!!!

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I already let her do something different with her dress because she refused to wear what the other girls are wearing. I love her dearly but I am asking for the next two months not to do her hair purple, or green. The next day she can do whatever she wants.

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Wow, I'm sorry but then I guess I am a bridezilla then b/c if she wanted a bribe (that involved money), then she wouldn't be in my wedding. How old is she??

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She is 12...she is sort of spoiled, partly our fault because she is the youngest of the family, we always gave into her. We always indulge her whenever we see her (lives out of state) and I don't think she wants her big brother to get married, she thinks the money train is about to stop for her lol. 50 bucks is worth it to me not have to deal with the purple hair.

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Yea, that purple hair wouldnt fly with me.... its like that bridezilla episode where the bride didnt want her sister wearing bright red hair for the wedding.... it was sooooooooooo funny b/c I thought it was her real hair- and then we find out it was a wig all along LOL!

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yehhh I don't think I'd be to keen with the purple either... If I'm paying all that money to have my pictures turn out how I want them to, then I wouldn't want to constantly look at someone's purple hair that irriated me to begin with. I understand it's who she is, but at the same time she's in YOUR wedding she could have the consideration to just not do it since you asked her not to. I'm glad it all worked out for you in the end lol...