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Is this dumb?

brittndave Posted:

Is this dumb?

I realllly don't want to spend a ton of money on a RD, esp. since we aren't having an actual rehearsal! Is it dumb to just have everyone over to either our house or the rental house my mom has for the week and do a cookout or pizza and beer/frozen drinks?

eta: thanks ladies! i'm glad i'm not the only one who wants a laid back rd!!
Lsorrent Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

Not at all. We're doing a catered bbq at FIL's house for our RD. I don't want anything fancy for it. I want everyone to hang out, relax, and enjoy themselves. To me, the wedding is about dressing up. Not the RD.

AngnShaun Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

not at all... and i dont think anyone that is attending the RD is going to care either...

StaceyWill Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

I don't think it's dumb at all. I think that's what we're going to do also. We did it in the backyard for my sis wedding and we all had a blast.

heathery72 Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

No I think it'll be more fun if its casual.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?


Posted by Lsorrent

Not at all. We're doing a catered bbq at FIL's house for our RD. I don't want anything fancy for it. I want everyone to hang out, relax, and enjoy themselves. To me, the wedding is about dressing up. Not the RD.



I am doing the same thing. I think its great!
MrsC2010 Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

Nope. I wish we could do this but all of our parents live too far from the Hotel where most of the BP and OOT people are staying.

AdriandSteve Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?


Posted by Lsorrent

Not at all. We're doing a catered bbq at FIL's house for our RD. I don't want anything fancy for it. I want everyone to hang out, relax, and enjoy themselves. To me, the wedding is about dressing up. Not the RD.



My mom actually suggested this. We'll see though lol. Cuz that'll be umm.. like 40 people at my house lol.

No.. it's not dumb.
StellaStar13 Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

Def not!!!! I think its a great idea!!! In fact I would rather do that than go to a restaurant.

miamimerger Posted:

Re: Is this dumb?

I think that sounds like a lot of fun :).

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