I have 3 of FH sisters in the wedding ( 29,21, 6 yrsold) I called one of FH sisters (21)a few weeks ago and told her if she was available Mar. 6th or March 12th to go for dresses. SHe said Mar.12th.. So I call her on Monday and I get her voicemail, I reminded her that it was this Sat. and for her to call me back and let me know if she is coming. Today is Wed. and I haven't heard from her personally. She calls (the 29 yr old sister) and says can she go earlier or a different day because she is having a house warming.. FH even calls her and leaves her a message to call me... So the 29 yr old sister says that is how she is, even their father has to go thru her to catch Jen.. but she is 21, I shouldn't have to deal with her bullshyt... THat is inconsiderate not to return a call! I feel like taking her out the wedding.
CubanBride
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hmm, that is definitely weird.
Borricuamorena0905
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I jus called FH and told him to ask her if she still wanted to be in it, and also to let her know that she doesn't have to..
David'sbride
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Definitely inconsiderate. This seems like her parents fault if her Dad is willing to tolerate it. Does she do this with everything in life? My father would have set me straight.
Yes, she's 21 and there are some 21 year olds out there (not all) who live a bit more carefree and don't understand the logistics involved but that's b@#$%^&t that she can't return a phone message.
Can FH talk to her and tell her she needs to be more responsible?
Bunnymonkey
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totally inconsiderate. Could this be her indirect way of saying she does not want to be in the wedding?
Darcy
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Thus we have no family in the wedding. just more stress in dealing with the transition.
Borricuamorena0905
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ooops! I 4got that a lot of girls on here r younger then I .. so I hope this doesn't start a war! I love everyone!!!! It's jus some people of not as reponsible and marute as they should be....
FH is going to talk to her..
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That is why I thank my lucky stars that I don't have my fsil in the wedding party. I had to go through two months of drama not to have her in it, but it was all worth it. I'd rather to the two months as oppose to the year of trying to plan with drama queen in the bridal party. THANK YOU LUCKY STARS!!!!!
Oh, sorry Borri, just had to get that off. The family needs to stop babying this lil sis and/or they should not expect you to do the same. Tell her what I tell my 'friends', either she rolls with you or get rolled over!!
KimberlyBride
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So rude!!! She is young and thinks the world revolves around her. My sister is 27 and still thinks that way
angelbear217
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Yes, very inconsiderate! Why does she need a go between? She should just suck it up and call you herself.
Jamie&MarkSept.'05
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She sounds really immature...give me her address...I will go beat her up for you date twin!
