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Is this normal???

Emily7 Posted:

Is this normal???

The due date for my RSVPs is next Wednesday - December 10th. We still haven't heard from like 40 couples!!! I feel like that's a lot of couples to have still not responded. is that normal. What did others experience?

NYCMeghan Posted:

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I don't have any personal experience with your timeframe, but I think with the holiday last week you'll see a lot of responses this week.

aliciahelene Posted:

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We are going through this as well. Our due date is also dec 10th and we are still missing 40 people..Ill give it until then and start making a few phone calls, alot f people just wait until the last minute I guess

Emily7 Posted:

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Are you missing 40 PEOPLE or 40 COUPLES? I'm missing 40 couples - that's like 80 people!

ChristineC68 Posted:

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sorry to tell you this, but it's normal. People either RSVP right away or at the last minute. You will probably have a lot come in early next week for people that mail them over the weekend and another batch mailed on the 10th.

Emily7 Posted:

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For some reason, I'm prematurely angry! I find this very rude and it shows a total lack of enthusiasm!!
ChristineC68 Posted:

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I am sure they will be enthusiastic at the wedding
Emily7 Posted:

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I know - - I guess no one is ever as excited fro your wedding as you are!
WeezieNY Posted:

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totally unfortunately. I had to call a whole set of cousins a few days past the rsvp date to get responses and still got the statement oh, its so early but of course we're coming, like i have esp.
dont worry.
KFA5477 Posted:

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i think it's rude also
as soon as i get the invite and i know i can go i mail it back
i'm know for being the first RSVP mailed
i want people to know that they are important enough that i will take my time RSVP right away
but unfortunatly that is not the norm
Emily7 Posted:

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That is how I feel! If you want to show you're excited for something, you RSVP eagerly! I totally agree.

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