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Is this normal?

Wintersbride Posted:

Is this normal?

Ok, the wedding is in 6 days and I feel like I am going out of my mind! This morning I woke up happy as could be, later on in the day I wound up with a panic attack...which I have not had in almost 4 years!!! I have no doubts about getting married, I am just nervous about the party part of the wedding, and, although I'm ashamed to admit it...being on my own I called FH because he is one of the few people who can calm me down (which he did), but he said that this is normal and that it's an emotional rollercoaster and new changes. I feel like I'm going crazy though...one minute I'm happy, next minute I'm anxious and then crying about God knows what! I feel like a big baby. My question is, as happy as you may be about this aspect of your life, is it normal to be going through this? I hope I'm not alone. Normally I am pretty level emotionally.
debsey75 Posted:

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I am sure these are all normal reactions. I still have 2 months to go and I get all freaked out at times as well. It is alot of stress and emotions involved. Just think about the big picture.....you are marrying the man you love in just a few times.
Best of luck to you. Enjoy every moment of it.
SN2BMRSBURTE Posted:

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Every bride I have ever known has gotten that way right before the wedding day.. I think it is perfectly normal, I mean think about it...Not only have you probably been thinking about and planning the day for awhile..but you are about to make a huge commitment to someone. The funny part is I heard from all of those same brides that they are kind of depressed AFTER the big day because all of the excitement of planning everything is over. So, try not to worry, and I'm sure you will have tons of fun at the party!!
SN2BMRSBURTE Posted:

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I just realized that your wedding date is the 1 year anniversary of Dom proposing to me!!!
Wintersbride Posted:

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Posted by SN2BMRSBURTE

I just realized that your wedding date is the 1 year anniversary of Dom proposing to me!!!



Well, that means it's that much more of a wonderful day!

I have been planning this for a while and I have been so caught up in school. Now school is done until september and I have nothing else to do but this wedding and it's throwing me for a loop! It's almost like having a big expensive baby I guess, huh?
cjb88 Posted:

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i wish i could say something to make you feel better!
Wintersbride Posted:

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Posted by cjb88

i wish i could say something to make you feel better!


Aw, thanks...I am feeling better. Maybe it's the realization that I only have 2 days of work this week and then I am on vacay (1st time in...gosh, I can't remember when my last vacation was...guess that means I'm overdue) that put me back into a happy mood. I just need to relax.
Keywi231 Posted:

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DanNette Posted:

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Totally normail!!!! There are so many different aspects of your life that are changing right now!!! You should be happy to know you will always have FH to make you smile!

nala3378 Posted:

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I am sure this is totally normal...

A lot of people handle this differently.
SummerBride06 Posted:

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i got a little freaked out the day before my wedding, it's totally normal.

just have a drink or go for a massage or something and relax!

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