Is this normal...

I am about to be married in 17 days, and I feel like nothing is going the way that I planned. More drama than anything else. I feel like every vendor that I had has had some type of issue. My dress is giving me so many issues!

I haven't had a good night sleep in over 1 week, and I highly doubt that it will get better. I really feel like I am heading for a breakdown!

Am I the only one that is getting this stressed out?

so sorry you are going thru this..........

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Posted by ant090608

I am about to be married in 17 days, and I feel like nothing is going the way that I planned. More drama than anything else. I feel like every vendor that I had has had some type of issue. My dress is giving me so many issues!

I haven't had a good night sleep in over 1 week, and I highly doubt that it will get better. I really feel like I am heading for a breakdown!

Am I the only one that is getting this stressed out?

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You are not alone! I feel like I want to rip peoples head off today!!!

Sometimes you just get overwhelmed and feel like everything is happening at once. Tell us what the issues are and we'll help you feel better... I promise.

I think stress at this point is only natural. Im at 24 days and I have threatened physical harm on countless people . Just try to tackle one problem at a time and try to realize that the day of your wedding most of these stressors are going to be the farthest thing from your mind.

it sounds like you are just overwhelmed...i felt like last week dealing with RD drama...just try and relax...go get a massage or mani-pedi or something to unwind!

Most of the stuff is just so out of my control...

People not responding
We are 25 people under our min
Vendors not getting back to my calls
My dress not being hemmed properly
The cost of this wedding getting out of control...but mainly it's my uncles health that I am worried about.

He was diagnosed with lukemia, and was given days... This man is like my second father, and I really don't feel like doing any of this wedding planning when I am so sad inside.

I can understand how you feel. I am at 29 days and I have the opposite problem. I know there is all this stuff to do but I have no motivation to do it. It might be because I tend to work better under pressure or because I am just so tired of all the planning. Ironic since I am an event planner...

You will be fine - take a deep breath, close your eyes, and do something else when it all becomes too much. This should be an enjoyable time in your life - relax everything will all work out in the end. Try not to stress over things that are beyond your control. The most important thing is that you are getting married to the love of your life. All of the little details will pale in comparison on the day of.