is this normal?? (may be tmi!!!)

is this normal?? (may be tmi!!!)

I have this fear now - since we only have 5 months (a little more! - monday will be 5 months!) til the wedding i have become somewhat paranoid about getting pregnant over the past few months.....and i never was that concious before...not that it wqould be horrible or anything, fh is great and we'd welcome a baby but we'd just prefer to have all go as planned right now!

did anyone else go through it? i am lucky that fh is very patient and completely understands but i feel bad.....just wanted to see if anyone else went/is going through it??

( i didn't post it on bhb b/c i figured here everyone would see it..although maybe thats bad too...lol, oh well!)

Re: is this normal?? (may be tmi!!!)

Re: is this normal?? (may be tmi!!!)

I completely understand what your going through. About 4 months before my wedding I got off the pills and was not going to take anymore birth control. Then 2 months passed after I stop the pills I didn't get my period. I had taken I think about 4 pregnancy test they all said it was negative and was completely freaking out. I was going to parties and weddings, wouldn't even drink and I was feeling guilty about wearing a white dress the day of my wedding. Luckily my period did come late and I felt sooooo relieved. All the things that went through my head about my weddng and me being pregnant. I wasn't going to tell anybody in my family except for my sister who knew and just keep it a secret until after the wedding. Fh and I thought the same as you we would welcome a baby but we wanted everything to go as planned.

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I worried about the same thing before my wedding. You are not alone!

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thanks!! (it makes me feel better!!)

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4 months before our wedding...I had a dream that I was 4 months pregnant...so I would be 8 months pregnant at the wedding...I guess we all have some anxiety...

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No I have to say I have the same paranoia. I try not to mention it to FI to much I think it would give him a heart attack, But I know that we are being extremely careful. So it will be ok.

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glad to hear its normal, I went through it too. And lately, I've been getting paranoid again (even though the weddings over now).

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thats part of the reason why were waiting til marraige.., the other reason being the church

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I also had the same concerns. Not that we wouldn't be very happy having a baby, but I didn't want to go through the last couple of months pregnant. I think your concerns are very normal.

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Yup had that fear too!