I took one of my BM's out shopping for BM dresses because she is going to be moving out of the country in 3 weeks. I already knew I wanted Jim Hjlem dresses so she tried on a ton and we narrowed it down to two. One of them I am pretty dead set on. Is it okay for me to just pick the BM dress with no input from the other bms?
Summertimegal424
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i think its fine. the only person i did any looking with was my MOH and i dont plan on running it by the other BMS when i finally decide....
ttdiff11
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i think its fine!
Soon2BMrsC09
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I only ran it past my MOH - and everyone turned out to be fine with it
JnA823
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The first time I went dress shopping I tried to get all my girls to go. Most of them came but we didn't see anything we liked... but we chose a color. The next time I went only 3 of my BM's came with me and we found a dress that we all liked. I still had 5 BM's that needed to look at the dress. I was going to wait till they all approved but to be honest I don't want to have to pick out another one. So now when they go to order it if they don't like then they don't need to be in the wedding. So far 2 of the 5 went and they liked it.
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I think it's fine...a few of my bridesmaids thought otherwise and I got annoyed that I only brought my sisters and my mom. I'm sorry but the idea of getting 7 different girls opinions, who are all different shapes and sizes, is not appealing!!!!!!!!!!!!
angels914
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That is fine... when I look, I just plan on taking my MOH ( sister) with me first !
PROBM
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yes absoloutley !!!!
BarbieGrl10
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Its totally fine! I think too many choices with a group of girls get too crazy. I've been there ! It happened when we went shopping for my MOHs wedding.
Celeste617
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I think that's fine! When I was in my MOH's wedding, she just sent us a pic of the dress and color - that was that!
Brendanzgirl
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Sure! if that's what ur dead set on they why not! they dont' have the ultimate say--you do! so i say go for it...YOu can maybe send them pics online? Talk to them and explain what the dress looks like and most likely they wont argue w/u anyway.
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That's fine-at least you took a BM.
When I got married, I took my MOH and one of my BMs dress shopping. I did this in order to get input and because my BM would be the hardest to dress so she was a benchmark. What kinda bothers me sometimes is when BMs are not involved...it kinda makes people feel bad.