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Is this thoughtful or intrusive?

Original post by DanNette

My best friend is getting married this Friday. I wanted to secretly send her and FH some pic while they are away on their honeymoon (to their hotel). Is this thoughtful or intrusive?
PegaLega Posted:

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I think its thoughtful-I spent our 4 day HM thinking about pictures and WISH someone would have sent me just ONE! I think it would be a really sweet gesture-go for it

ETA:someone said that they would feel they had to call and Thank you, maybe put a note inside saying..Enjoy your HM I will talk to you when you get back!
Tori9299 Posted:

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I think it's great.

AllyDrew1108 Posted:

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DO IT! I'd love to get something from my good friends while on my honey moon, I'm just hoping my fiance's mom doesn't call us. I need to find a hotel w/out phones or something. Trust me, she will call us 3 times a day -- she does it every time we're away. Talk about intrusive :(

SherinJeff Posted:

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So..

Do you all think that you will go on your honeymoon and not talk to anyone from home.. at all.. the whole time????

I notice some people replied that they wouldnt because then you may have to call and say thank you..

I must be a real wierdo because regardless if its my honeymoon.. I bet I will be making calls to my friends and family during ..LOL!!!!

I wake up REALLY early and tend to go for walks and stuff and let my boyfriend sleep in, esp on a vacation. I could see myself sitting at the pool having a cocktail, and calling up my best friend or sister to reminice....
Honeymoon or not, I dont think a phone call home is strange..
is it?????

I guess it may depend too on how long of a honeymoon we have.

Am I the only one that would be calling home?
EJSD2006 Posted:

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thoughtful! i wouldve loved to have seen pics of our wedding while on our HM!

PegaLega Posted:

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Posted by SherinJeff

So..

Do you all think that you will go on your honeymoon and not talk to anyone from home.. at all.. the whole time????

I notice some people replied that they wouldnt because then you may have to call and say thank you..

I must be a real wierdo because regardless if its my honeymoon.. I bet I will be making calls to my friends and family during ..LOL!!!!

I wake up REALLY early and tend to go for walks and stuff and let my boyfriend sleep in, esp on a vacation. I could see myself sitting at the pool having a cocktail, and calling up my best friend or sister to reminice....
Honeymoon or not, I dont think a phone call home is strange..
is it?????

I guess it may depend too on how long of a honeymoon we have.

Am I the only one that would be calling home?



We talked to friends and family...I think some people consider it a rule while you are on your HM not to call anyone and just enjoy yourself. me I couldnt help it
ruzi777 Posted:

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I Honestly think it is Very Thoughtful.

I know I Could Not Wait to see my pics from the Wedding....

If I would of gotten a package with some pics..I would be in Tears.

What a Great Thing to think of to do.

I am SO for it.

Mooshyboo Posted:

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Posted by jboothin2008

I think it's very thoughtful. Intrusive would be calling the hotel to talk to them, etc ... sending them a package is nice and I am sure they will love it!



I would send them a package to there hotel ~ I think that is thoughtful ~ very sweet ~ I am dieing to see pics from my wedding and only surprised two people sent pics to us to far! one was my BM and my hubbys aunt... GREAT IDEA!
italyngigi Posted:

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I would LOVE if one of my friends did that for me!
mariaobride Posted:

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i think it is thoughtful and would be such a nice surprise - she would love it.

irishsweetheart Posted:

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i personally would LOVE to receive something like that because I would find it to be entirely unexpected and I love surprises!

I think it's really thoughtful!

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