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Is this too much time?

shopaholic07 Posted:

Re: Is this too much time?

I think that's the right amount of time.

hmv12 Posted:

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I might be clueless, but I thought 3 months was the right time...Hey better early than late
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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supposedly it's not proper etiquette to send invites out too early. but it's your wedding, do what you want. i'm sending mine out 2 months before b/c mine is on a holiday. did you already send out STD's? why did you want to send out invites 3 months in advance??

giannismomma05 Posted:

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I think that just enough time ...

Future Mrs. Posted:

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This is totally personal....and its up to you.....

Sometimes it depends on your situation. The usual timing is 8 weeks prior to the wedding date. RSVPs should be requested by one month prior to the wedding date.

However, if you have an A list and a B list (people on the B list are when you have a numbers limit, and if people on the A list (priority list) say no, you can now invite the B list, then A list invites go out 10-12 weeks, so that B list can go out 8 weeks.

I hope this helps!!!! (i know its sort of confusing)
bettybcafe Posted:

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Posted by jessandjimiswedding

supposedly it's not proper etiquette to send invites out too early. but it's your wedding, do what you want. i'm sending mine out 2 months before b/c mine is on a holiday. did you already send out STD's? why did you want to send out invites 3 months in advance??



well part of it is because I just want the RSVPs to start pouring in as quickly as possible ...but also because my wedding is going to be about 1 1/2hrs away from most of my family members so I would like to give them enough time to think aobut it and shedule to take that day off from work...
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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Posted by bettybcafe


Posted by jessandjimiswedding

supposedly it's not proper etiquette to send invites out too early. but it's your wedding, do what you want. i'm sending mine out 2 months before b/c mine is on a holiday. did you already send out STD's? why did you want to send out invites 3 months in advance??



well part of it is because I just want the RSVPs to start pouring in as quickly as possible ...but also because my wedding is going to be about 1 1/2hrs away from most of my family members so I would like to give them enough time to think aobut it and shedule to take that day off from work...



then totally do what you want. etiquette shmetiquette!!! i think we're all anxious to get replies!!! my friend sent out her invites 4 months in advance!
Bailey07 Posted:

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I think 3 months is too soon people might forget I'm doing mine 6-8 weeks ahead.

eelharas4700 Posted:

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Posted by kismet8601

I dont think so, thats when we are doing it so we have time to call the ones who dont RSVP and get the B list invites out



us too! fh wanted to send them earlier though. i think 3 months is fine. especially if you have oot guests.
woobie113007 Posted:

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yeah I was thinking of 2 1/2 or 3 months before

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