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Is this too much to ask of from BM's????

jellybean1420 Posted:

Is this too much to ask of from BM's????

Ok...so I am sure you read my last few posts about my BM's not wanting to spend the money to get hair and make-up done. I understand this being they are all college students. However, my hair and make-up artists have a 3 person min. each. My mom and I are obviously both getting our hair and make-up done. Do you think it is too much of me to ask that the girls choose one, either hair or make-up to get done and I will give them $50 towards it as part of their BM gift? Make-up is $65, so it would only cost them $15. Hair is $80 so it would cost them $30. I can't afford to pay for it all being I already spent $100 on each of them for their gifts.

weddingbunny Posted:

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I think maybe the best thing to do would be to present the idea to them and see how they feel. It sounds fair to me, as long as you are giving them the choice between one or the other.

It doesn't sound like too much to me, but everybody has their own price for these things.
suven Posted:

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How about covering the full cost for your MOH?

I wouldnt' ask anyone to put $15 toward makeup or $30 toward hair. At that point, you may as well just cover the cost.
VadersBride2006 Posted:

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What about FMIL? Why don't you ask her if she wants in on it... then the three of you could spend some time together...

ksl268 Posted:

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Posted by suven

How about covering the full cost for your MOH?

I wouldnt' ask anyone to put $15 toward makeup or $30 toward hair. At that point, you may as well just cover the cost.



I agree, it's a really nice gesture for your MH
scorps1027 Posted:

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i think that's a better idea and solves the issue of money!

debbiedee77 Posted:

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Posted by ksl268


Posted by suven

How about covering the full cost for your MOH?

I wouldnt' ask anyone to put $15 toward makeup or $30 toward hair. At that point, you may as well just cover the cost.



I agree, it's a really nice gesture for your MH



I agree with this as well. Pay for your MOH hair and makeup and that's your gift to her and you reached the minimum.
megsm3 Posted:

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Posted by ksl268



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Posted by suven

How about covering the full cost for your MOH?

I wouldnt' ask anyone to put $15 toward makeup or $30 toward hair. At that point, you may as well just cover the cost.
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I agree, it's a really nice gesture for your MH
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I agree with this as well. Pay for your MOH hair and makeup and that's your gift to her and you reached the minimum.

i agree with these girls as well - it would be really nice
bride2b24 Posted:

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Posted by suven

How about covering the full cost for your MOH?

I wouldnt' ask anyone to put $15 toward makeup or $30 toward hair. At that point, you may as well just cover the cost.



thats a great idea

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