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Is this weird?

Das142 Posted:

Is this weird?

There are a few girls on here that I have recently been thinking about inviting to my wedding because they have been such an enormous help to me with the wedding and NW stuff, BUT i have never really met them. Does anyone else feel this way and are you inviting them????

SeptBride70 Posted:

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omg! i know! there are SO many girls on here who i have met and some who i have not met but they have been so awesome-- i want to invite everyone but i have to keep it pretty reasonable though b/c it's just crazy $$$...

so i had to limit it to people i see a lot-- be it at g2g's, bridal shows, etc etc... and those that i reguarly talk to...

but i'm so happy i have this site-- a friend that i made on here is now going to be one of my BM's!
MJDoc12 Posted:

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NO IT'S NOT WEIRD!!!!!!!!!

just look at the 2006 board--MANY MANY Girls became sooo close on there, they were members of the BP!

i was a member of the knot long before i was on here, and 4 girls (and their DH/FH's) will be invited to my wedding from there.

and at least 1 couple from here will be invited to my wedding! you become close with girls on here and form friendships, so why not??

don't feel bad. put them on 'B' lists in case your list gets tight, cause really, whose gonna understand better than a fellow bride that you might have to change things at the last minute!
Das142 Posted:

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Posted by STBMrsDaniRella

omg! i know! there are SO many girls on here who i have met and some who i have not met but they have been so awesome-- i want to invite everyone but i have to keep it pretty reasonable though b/c it's just crazy $$$...

so i had to limit it to people i see a lot-- be it at g2g's, bridal shows, etc etc... and those that i reguarly talk to...

but i'm so happy i have this site-- a friend that i made on here is now going to be one of my BM's!



Thats so nice!!!! I want to meet everyone and I just feel like a lot of these girls have helped me in ways they dont even know and I am inviting people that havent helped me at all so why shouldnt I invite the ones who have truly helped me and been there..even if it is on a website!!!
jessandjimiswedding Posted:

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if i didn't have such a long list, i would totally wanna invite ALL of my 07er's. cuz if you think about it, you girls have been with me thru the whole planning process. and i would love for you girls to be there for the final product!

Das142 Posted:

Re: Is this weird?


Posted by MJDoc12

NO IT'S NOT WEIRD!!!!!!!!!

just look at the 2006 board--MANY MANY Girls became sooo close on there, they were members of the BP!

i was a member of the knot long before i was on here, and 4 girls (and their DH/FH's) will be invited to my wedding from there.

and at least 1 couple from here will be invited to my wedding! you become close with girls on here and form friendships, so why not??

don't feel bad. put them on 'B' lists in case your list gets tight, cause really, whose gonna understand better than a fellow bride that you might have to change things at the last minute!



I think I was just neerveous that they might think its weird for me to be inviting them when we havent even met, even tho I hope to meet everyone before JUNE!!! Lol
TnOiOnL Posted:

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not weird at all! Not THESE girls! Everyone is so kind and helpful and i think ALOT of the girls here made such good friends and are all inviting other LIW girls.. if you look at past brides albums you'll see pics of them 'with my fellow LIW bride' !!!!!

heatherandrichie Posted:

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Weird not at all! If money is tight have them come to your shower...or you Bach. party! I have only been on here for 2 weeks and I don't have this much support from my 'friends'.
Thank you LIW gals! Anytime anyone wants to come to sunny Florida let me know!
chrissyandvin Posted:

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let me just say.. I have made some unbelievable friendships on here. I am inviting some of the girls I have met through here...
just so happens a couple of them.. we were connected through mutual friends and didn't even know it so I believe we were meant to be friends.. ok not gonna get all sappy on ya now.. I am just so happy to have met such wonderful girlies!
zenergy47 Posted:

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i think that is really nice :)

happygirl07 Posted:

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Nope, not weird at all. We're here quite often and as such, we make friendships with people who understand exactly what we're going through - we identify with each other, so no, not weird.

Here's to more friendships!
kitty1224 Posted:

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I know what you mean, everyone is so great and helpful and really nice. I wish I could invite everyone.

werock0709 Posted:

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I have indeed met some wonderful people here, but things change. I do have to say though.... that I do have a few girls whom are VERY REAL coming to my wedding. So NO your NOT crazy! If you can afford it, go for it.

laural2979 Posted:

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Not at all! I wish that I had the to invite everyone. You better believe that if I have any extra space that I'll be inviting people too.
D's Girl Posted:

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Not weird at all

I have met and became friends with amazing woman on this site & feel that it was meant to be.
EverlovingEv Posted:

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i think that's incredibly sweet!

Nina Posted:

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Not weird at all.
If you can afford it..do it.

Many people on this site have made lasting friendships..

Also..if $$ does not allow...it is always great, and okay, to invite them to the ceremony. Plenty of girls on here ask the girls to come to the ceremony..so you can see the bride and take pics.

Its not weird at all girlfriend
SeptBride70 Posted:

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Posted by Nina

Not weird at all.
If you can afford it..do it.

Many people on this site have made lasting friendships..

Also..if $$ does not allow...it is always great, and okay, to invite them to the ceremony. Plenty of girls on here ask the girls to come to the ceremony..so you can see the bride and take pics.

Its not weird at all girlfriend



That's a good idea and alternative that I never even thought of!

How nice
tonimike Posted:

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I dont thibk its weird.. If it keeps up with all the VERY REAL friends me & fh have made on here , well we will probably have a LIW table .. LOL

But like nina said , if you cannot alllow that in your budget , there is always the cermony ,, Thats the sacriment of marriage anyways , not the after party !!!! ,,,

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