I just sent out the email to the girls I would want to invite to my bachelorette party (went with July 31st, btw because i'm afraid having it only one week before the wedding would be stressful) and got a response from one of them saying that she can't because she's going to FH's bach-party ...
is it me, or is it super-weird that FH invited a girl (albeit a lesbian) to his bach party?!
it's not like they're THAT close (they see each other once a year!)
kerber981
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It's definitely weird! Also how do you know her? Your friend or his?
kris_gets_hitched
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IMO I'd rather go to a bachelor party than a bachelorette party so if I was invited to both on the same day, I'd go to the bachelor party.
I don't think it's weird.
I'm kind of a lesbian too.
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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Is it his friend or your friend? Yes - I think thats weird.
AngnShaun
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
I'm kind of a lesbian too.
i honestly do think its weird... lesbian or not that he invited her, espeically if shes not a super close talk to every single day friend...
AwaitingAugust
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Your friend or his?
she's his friend
regy_k
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Your friend or his?
she's his friend
well then there's ur answer
otherwise I would think its weird too
kerber981
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AngnShaun
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Your friend or his?
she's his friend
oooo i didnt realize that... not really that weird anymore...
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Your friend or his?
she's his friend
well then there's ur answer
otherwise I would think its weird too
Yep. This.
If I was a Lesbian, I'd DEFINITELY want to go to a Bachelor party rather than a Bachelorette. Actually, maybe even if I wasn't a Lesbian!
JAAMS
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I don't think it's weird. My gay guy friends will be invited to my bachelorette party.
flibbertigibbet
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I dont think its weird.
She wants to see some naked women. What else is there for lesbians to do?
SoonToBeMrsCampos
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Your friend or his?
she's his friend
oooo i didnt realize that... not really that weird anymore...
This.
EmiandKensDay
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I can see your apprehension. . .but given that she is his friend it is OK.
TraceySLP1
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ummmm....all but one of my FHs friends going to his bach party are girls. And all but one of them are lesbians......
I say.....GO FH!
Jna2010
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ummmm yeah id be a littlw wierded out
soontobecruz
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VERY WEIRDDD!!!
jackieee
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not weird since it's his friend.
Windy
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I'd check in with FH to see if this is the only girl invited - i would not be happy if there were a bunch of girls invited to my FH bach party. If she's the only one then its not a big deal.