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Is this what its like for everyone 24 days before their wedding?

Hamptonsbride06 Posted:

Is this what its like for everyone 24 days before their wedding?

I feel like nothing else could possibly go wrong....

Our rehearsal is October 19, I made it very clear to everyone that the rehearsal starts at 6. So my bridesmaid, and her son, my ring bearer, have a flight that arrives into Laguardia at 5:10 that day. Apparently she thinks I have a helicopter to get them to the church on time.

My e ring was custom, so we had to have a wedding band made custom by the same designer to match it. We got in touch with the designer through a well known jewler in sayville. Well the ring was made, and shipped to this store in sayville, when the package arrived, the box was damaged, so it was refused and sent back to the designer. When the designer recieved it, the box was EMPTY. Now everyone is blaming ups for stealing my ring. Honestly I dont care what happened, im more concerned that it took over 2 months to make the first one, and now I have 24 days. So looks to me like I need a stunt ring for the wedding

Fh is taking pictures with his family before the ceremony, we had to pay extra to have the photographers at two seperate locations, but it was really important to us. Fhs dad has an incredible house, its amazing, with a pond and a water fall and a huge iron gazebo, its a huge house its brick with big white columns, its gorgeous. Fh asked his father if they could do the pictures at his house. In the four years I have known ffil, I have never seen his face light up the way it did when fh asked him. He was very excited to be involved. So last night we tell fmil that we are using ffils house for pictures, and she starts on this lunatic rant about how she wont be going there, she wants nothing to do with pictures if thats where they will be taken, and how rude it was to ask her to go there. Be an adult, and suck it up, hes his f'n kid too

My dad decided that he is uncomfortable dancing, and refuses to dance with me at the wedding...so now no father daughter dance, eventhough we are extremely close...hes just not interested

Im so stressed out, I have the worst stress break out of my life, my hair is falling out, and I am physically injuring myself, because my mind is always on the wedding..in the past two days I have walked into the corner of the car door, resulting in a GIANT bruise on my forehead, and forgot to use a pot holder to take something out of the oven, and severly burned my (thank god ) right hand

I just cant wait for it all to be over so I can go on this 2 week honeymoon and relax...

I just cant wait for it to all be over
angnick Posted:

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yes that was how we felt too.

this is why you have a honeymoon- you earn it, that is for sure.

moonlitee Posted:

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It gets much worse at 11 days before the wedding. Everyone keeps telling me that things will work out so I'm going with that.

Hamptonsbride06 Posted:

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Posted by moonlitee

It gets much worse at 11 days before the wedding. Everyone keeps telling me that things will work out so I'm going with that.



Everyone keeps saying that to me too ' Dont worry everything will fall into place' but its hard to believe that
MrsD06 Posted:

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yes, that's how it is! EVERYONE in your life is stressed and everything goes wrong..SO much fun! I had a big gash on my hand but it cleared up just in time for pics!
kittythestray Posted:

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SOON TO BE MRS. B Posted:

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I can say, with 18 days to go, that I don't think I have ever been more stressed in my life....and we haven't had any issues or problems, so I can only imagine how you feel....I do know deep down that my day will be amazing and everything will work out, I just can't help being anxious and nervous to get everything done.....I hope you feel better :)

waterspout4 Posted:

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My cousin told me about 1 month before the wedding when I was totally stressing, 'That's why the honeymoon is so close to the wedding. That's when you relax.' She was right! Just remember that you're marrying the love of your life.
October Bliss Posted:

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Have you read my vent posts??

I'm going through similar B. S. with only 12 days left.

Here are some for you!
ewickens Posted:

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But in 24 days you'll be married to your best friend and nothing else matters!
reenielady Posted:

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take a deep breath and a night off to relax with your FH
ahall04 Posted:

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Hey date twin!!!

Here are some hugs for you!!!


I am doing everything in my power to not worry or be stressed out. I get to marry the love of my life in 3 and a half weeks. If things don't go perfectly, I know that I will have my best friend for life once it is all over!!! (I say this now, but I will have to get back to you in a couple of weeks!!!!!!)
Hamptonsbride06 Posted:

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thanks everyone...the encouragement makes me feel tons better
seta Posted:

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I just felt stressed for you and then realized holy $ hit we have the same date!!!!
LandsEnd06 Posted:

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It totally understand. I can't take tracking people down for their RSVPs anymore.

BKtoLI Posted:

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Aww Jenn, if you need to overdose on some drinks or chinese buffet, let me know!!!!

People s#ck, and that's what it boils down to.

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