Is this wrong?

MsKitty1274 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 05:59 PM

Is this wrong?

Ok, on my mom's side, I have 6 cousins (all 1 family, 4 boys 2 girls). Three of the boys are getting or have been married in a 2 month period. 1-August 28 in Illinois, 1-October 16 in Illinois and 1-October 22 in Arizona. Granted, I have not seen them in a while, but still, they are family.

I did not get invited to the one in August, or the first one in October (both in Illinois) but was invited to the one in Arizona but can't go (can't get time off to go).

Is it wrong to send a nice gift to the one I was invited to, even though I have not sent anything to the others? Should I send something, but smaller, to the other two?

TIA!!

-Jill

butterfly20 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 06:05 PM

Re: Is this wrong?

for the ones that did not receive an invitation to did you receive a wedding annoucement card? if not then i would say not to worry about sending a gift to them.. but it is nice to send one to when you received an invite

slwh2005 Posted: Oct 12, 2004 06:25 PM

Re: Is this wrong?

I would only send something to the one I was invited too. I hope that doesn't sound cheap. I guess if I had unlimited funds I'd send the others gifts too.

MrsJ Posted: Oct 12, 2004 07:34 PM

Re: Is this wrong?

Posted by butterfly20

for the ones that did not receive an invitation to did you receive a wedding annoucement card? if not then i would say not to worry about sending a gift to them.. but it is nice to send one to when you received an invite

I agree 100%