is this wrong or rude?

cateydee Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:00 PM

is this wrong or rude?

i am only having a MOH and best man. no other bridal party.

is it wrong for me to book a limo just for FH and me and let them take their own cars to and from church and RH?

Nrauch8191 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:03 PM

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What about having them in the limo with you???

kater08 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:06 PM

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I am only having MOH and BM as well.

I am also only getting a car for FH and I. My wedding party will most likley ride with their husband/wife to the reception. They're aware of this and fine with it.

cateydee Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:08 PM

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Posted by Nrauch8191

What about having them in the limo with you???

i was thinking of just having us two since we wont really have that much time alone during the reception.

plus i was thinking of one of those old cars, like a rolls royce or something that only fits a couple of people.

asg450 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:08 PM

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I don't think it is wrong, if they have their own cars. it's only 2 of them and it makes no sense booking a limo or car for just 2 people. you should enjoy your time alone with your FH in your own limo.

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:10 PM

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I'm not having a BP either. What I was going to do was get one limo and a car. Have the car take my Dad and I to the church, the limo take my sis, his bro and my mom to the church. Then a fter the church, take all of us in the limo. Thats what I was thinking. Now that I'm 'saying' this out loud, not sure if this will work out!

Nrauch8191 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:14 PM

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I don't think it is rude but what about just getting a lincoln town car.

I am getting married at my reception hall. I am paying for our BP to stay in a hotel that is very very close.

Therfore, I am not getting limos at all. My friend owns a limo company so we will just borrow it to take pictures only.

Yankees2323 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:14 PM

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what about getting them a town car?

Iluvpoodles Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:24 PM

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I may be having only a MH and BM but since we are going in one of the older style cars that just fits us, we are paying to get them their own limo as I feel it's only fair...but that's me.

Jna2010 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 04:25 PM

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i would still get them a car, doesnt have to be a grand stretch limo but a town car or something

StaceYums81 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:12 PM

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Nope, nothing wrong with it. We are not doing LIMOS at all so everyone is on their own...

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:17 PM

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We're only having an MOH and BM, but I'm going to get a limo from church to the RH for them, my mom, dad's sisters and brothers and their spouses, and my mom's sister and brother in law.

lori7570 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:19 PM

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I would get them a towncar

SummerBride10 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:38 PM

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I would check with them first and make sure they would have a way to get to and from the reception and that they would be ok with it. You know them better than us- are they the type that would make a big fuss out of something small? You can always get them a car as well.

paprika023 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:42 PM

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for my sisters wedding she had only BM and MOH.. i was the MOH so my parents my sister and i went in the limo to the ceremony.. my BIL and BM drove themselves.. my sister and BIL just took the limo themselves home.. i didn't think it was rude

jussie82 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 05:47 PM

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Posted by StaceYums81

Nope, nothing wrong with it. We are not doing LIMOS at all so everyone is on their own...

ita..i am not doing limos either...i am already spending so much money and the hotel is like 5 minutes from the hall and my entire bp is staying there

JillandJoe Posted: Mar 24, 2009 06:30 PM

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its prob better to have them with u. even fancy antique cars have a second fold down set of seats

Bride825 Posted: Mar 24, 2009 06:56 PM

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dont think its rude at all...i would just let them know beforehand that thats what your doing. I think its a good idea to give yourselves some alone time

cateydee Posted: Mar 24, 2009 07:58 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

I would check with them first and make sure they would have a way to get to and from the reception and that they would be ok with it. You know them better than us- are they the type that would make a big fuss out of something small? You can always get them a car as well.

they are both pretty drama free thank goodness. no matter what, i wouldnt be gettting the limo for the ride home, only to get from church to RH. (y am i going to pay for a limo to sit outside?) its not really important to me, only for pics outside the church.

so it makes sense for them to take their own cars. MOH's husband (my bro) is going to be driving his car and best man (Brother in law) has to drive FH and parents to the church anyway.

thanks for your advice ladies