Is you FH/ or did you DH...

shelzyp Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:17 PM

Is you FH/ or did you DH...

smash the cake in your face.

My FH keeps telling me he is going to smoosh it in my face, even wehn I told him I would really like it if he didn't since my makeup will get ruined. He insits he will do it.

Nikki10-12-03 Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:29 PM

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My FH says the same thing, but my his mom warned him for me

julybride444 Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:30 PM

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we agreed not to do it b/f the wedding. I just never liked to watch it so I never wanted to do it. DH felt the same.

spel Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:36 PM

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over my dead body

jenny2penny Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:38 PM

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He knows that as quickly as he puts it in my face, I will deck him so quick that his head will spin and the marriage is over before he can blink an eye!!!

I told him, even if you think I might deep,,,deep,,,deep down find it funny,,,,I WILL NOT, so don't even try it. I think he got the hint

ChristineC68 Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:43 PM

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No way. DH would have been murderized if he did that!!!

Jenny2penny seems to have the matter settled well. Or you could mention how miserable his wedding night will be if you have cake smooshed on your face

butterfly20 Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:45 PM

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fh will not being doing that(dont want my makeup ruined)... however i think at the wedding well make a promise not to do it, then ill smash a small piece at him...
he seems to like that idea

jenny2penny Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:45 PM

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yes the wedding night threat often works well

Jordan Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:46 PM

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Neither of us like this 'tradition' so no, we're not doing it.

nrvbrd Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:46 PM

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Oh no he did not. That was not even an option.

Niecey Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:47 PM

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Hehe - I kept telling DH that I was going to smash him and he was the one arguing that I shouldn't. It is so in our personalities to do something silly. We did joke around and and be a little silly but when I went to feed it to him it fell off the fork. He was pretty embarrassed and said I did it on purpose (I didn't - fork it his top teeth and it fell to the ground - oops! I would have never smashed it but I would have done a tip of cream on the nose and wouldn't have cared if he did the same to me....like I said - we are always silly - so why stop on our wedding day but he was having no part of it!

karen32 Posted: Oct 06, 2003 04:58 PM

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FI has been threatened with death if he even attempts it. luckily it's not in his personality, so i'm not worried about it. i would be extremely upset if he did that, especially since i have asked him not to.

teachertime Posted: Oct 06, 2003 05:16 PM

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Oh, DH told me for months he was going to do it but I never threatened him with a wedding night strike

When the time came he didn't do it and afterward I asked him why and he said he watched the make-up artist work on my face for an hour and then HE had to pay her $200 so he wasn't going to waste that money with a cake in the face!!!

Chris