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Is your FH Nervous

Original post by shoegal68

so i asked my FH tonite if he is nervous and he says 'No, whats there to be nervous about'!!

i am happy he isn't nervous, but why are guys so calm & we are the ones freaking out

i guess its good that one of us is calm !!
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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he is about paying for everything..but not to get married

Snick n Nick Posted:

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Posted by Bella77

FH isn't nervous but we're both anxious about being the center of attention all day. We both like to blend into the crowd normally and this will be a total departure for us! At least I got some practice at my shower - he is going to be overwhelmed!!


same here....I think FH is nervous that he won't do the right things....
ShanonandSteve Posted:

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FH isnt nervous. he wishes the wedding were over with already.

i think he is most nervous about afterwards, moving in. making all the mortgage payments on our own. its going to be all new.
soon2bmrsconnolly Posted:

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My FH says the same thing- 'what's to be nervous about?' He says its already like we're married since we live together and everything. He also always says how excited he is to wear a wedding band.

I, on the other hand, know that I am going to freak out and have second thoughts, and cry and be sick to my stomach...but once the ceremony is over i'll be fine. And then I know that when we get into our first married couple fight i'm gonna freak out and think I made a huge mistake.

This is how I deal with change. Not fun. lol
Butterfly123 Posted:

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He wasnt nervous at all! He just seemed excited all the time and I was wishing I felt like him! lol. I almost lost my mind!
jessnstu08 Posted:

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He isn't nervous at all, he can't wait ! its cute

I am nervous about things going wrong, not about marrying him
markdea7699 Posted:

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FH wasnt nervous til he found out we were over budget.. oops lol
snwb08 Posted:

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I know for a fact my FH is scared sh1tless to get married. In a way i am too, but i've calmed down. He's a jaded lawyer who's done one too many divorces...
Dee0522 Posted:

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I asked mine last night too, and he said no, not really. We both agreed that the moment it will hit us is when we're in the limo riding to the church!! Because that will be the exact moment that all preparations are done... hair/makeup/getting dressed, pre-photos... once you are on your way to the ceremony, you are DONE! That's when I know I'll finally realize what's about to happen and feel nervous!

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