I'm at the 5 day mark and I think I've cried every day for the past week. I was so fine leading up to this point...totally mellow, relatively un-stressed, level-headed. With a week to go, I've morphed into a crazy, hormonal, cry-at-the-drop-of-a-hat bridezilla...totally unlike myself. I had another mini bachelorette party this Saturday and I even cried at that. We did Manicures & Margaritas and the manicurist filed my nails shorter & in a shape I didn't like. Would I ever cry over that??? I feel like every little thing is upsetting me. Now I just got a call from FH. We're doing the kitchen in my house (I bought it right before meeting FH) so I can sell it. FFIL is helping get all the counters for the kitchen and told the place we'd pay cash. Is he kidding??? 5 days before the wedding and you want us to pay cash??? I should just be happy he's done so much and yet here I am again, pissed off...I just finished crying hysterically on the phone with FH. So not like myself.
I can't find my happy and I'm afraid I won't find it by our wedding on Saturday
Did anyone else get like this?
Ncarlo
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cheer up! your marrying your best friend your probably just so stressed with all the last minute things! saturday will beautiful and you will have an amazing time its ok to be emotional! I watch say yes to the dress and i cry!!
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Im sorry Jen - its totally understandable though considering everything you have been dealing with. You'll wake up on your wedding day and you will be so happy! Its finally here - after all the planning and all your friends and family will be there with you and there will be no talks of money or illness or kitchens or anything like that. Everything will move to the back burner and your wedding will be amazing.
FM me if you want to talk about anything. Hang in there sweetie - its really right around the corner now.
xoxo feel better.
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i was super stressed the week of the wedding. it wasnt until the day before which was the day of the rehearsal dinner that I was just calm and excited to have everything get started.
your almost there!!!
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the last week for me was the worst week of my ENTIRE life! I have never cried that much or got upset over stupid sh!t like I did that week. A lot of the stress was coming from having my family stay with us in a tinyyy apt (total of 6 adults and 2 cats! ), but a lot was also due to wedding and trying to get everything done on time and the best way possible.
dont worry everything goes by and then the morning of u wake up and go 'I'TS MY WEDDING DAY!!!!!'
u will def find ur HAPPY
StaceyWill
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The last week for me, was a NIGHTMARE!!! My mom had a stroke and was in the hospital, I didn't even know if there was going to be a wedding (she had a mild one, thank god). I was MISERABLE. But then May 15th came and I was ecstatic about life again!! On your wedding day, you'll be soooo happy~trust me
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Posted by regy_k
the last week for me was the worst week of my ENTIRE life! I have never cried that much or got upset over stupid sh!t like I did that week. A lot of the stress was coming from having my family stay with us in a tinyyy apt (total of 6 adults and 2 cats! ), but a lot was also due to wedding and trying to get everything done on time and the best way possible.
dont worry everything goes by and then the morning of u wake up and go 'I'TS MY WEDDING DAY!!!!!'
u will def find ur HAPPY
Everything she said!!! The week before you get married is like a test to see if you can make it through something that stressful without strangling each other. LOL! Don't worry, you will definitely wake up on the morning of your wedding and be happy. If something isn't done by that point, let it go!
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Posted by jilliibabii
Posted by regy_k
the last week for me was the worst week of my ENTIRE life! I have never cried that much or got upset over stupid sh!t like I did that week. A lot of the stress was coming from having my family stay with us in a tinyyy apt (total of 6 adults and 2 cats! ), but a lot was also due to wedding and trying to get everything done on time and the best way possible.
dont worry everything goes by and then the morning of u wake up and go 'I'TS MY WEDDING DAY!!!!!'
u will def find ur HAPPY
Everything she said!!! The week before you get married is like a test to see if you can make it through something that stressful without strangling each other. LOL! Don't worry, you will definitely wake up on the morning of your wedding and be happy. If something isn't done by that point, let it go!
My rational brain keeps telling me to cut the sh1t and that these things are no big deal. And everytime I think ok, I'm alright, I have another melt down!!!
AAAAAARGHHHH!!!!
Thank you for making me feel better knowing I'm not the only one
jennybee
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Posted by StaceyWill
The last week for me, was a NIGHTMARE!!! My mom had a stroke and was in the hospital, I didn't even know if there was going to be a wedding (she had a mild one, thank god). I was MISERABLE. But then May 15th came and I was ecstatic about life again!! On your wedding day, you'll be soooo happy~trust me
Wow. That is a LOT to go through a week before. All's good with Mom, I hope? And thank you for the support!!!
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i just posted something similar this morning about how i am extremely un-excited about everything wedding-related ... and i still have over 2 months to go
i'm sure you'll find your happy place once all the planning is over and you can just enjoy the day
jennybee
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Posted by AwaitingAugust
i just posted something similar this morning about how i am extremely un-excited about everything wedding-related ... and i still have over 2 months to go
i'm sure you'll find your happy place once all the planning is over and you can just enjoy the day
It's good to know you're not the only one feeling that way, isn't it? You'll find yours too. Take an un-wedding week!
