Issues.........
Sorry if this is soooo long………
I have had a few issues with my MOH not being available for things. To be honest, I don’t really care, but she is making me feel guilty for not scheduling things when she is available. Back in June I wanted to go looking for my dress. I asked her and my aunt when would be a good day for them to go and look. I asked MOH for a list of days she would be free. The following week I made an appointment for a Saturday that worked for both MOH & my aunt. My MOH got upset and told me as it turns out she wasn’t available that day. She had a party to attend at 4pm with her boyfriend. I told her my appointment was at 1pm, maybe she could come for a little while before hand. She said she had a few family things to do in the morning. (which mind you I found out later she never went to) I told her not to worry, it was my first appointment and wanted to go to a few places she would still be able to come another time. I also made an appointment for the following Tuesday after work (we work together) to go and look at another place. I ended up finding my dress the first day, but wanted to keep my other appointment just to be sure. We went, along with my Aunt and 2 other girls from the BP to look and I wasn’t thrilled with anything. Afterwards, I said I wanted to go back to the first place to try on “my” dress again. My MOH told me she had to go cause she was meeting up with her bf and would maybe go with me the next day to look at the dress I loved. I ended up ordering my dress that night. The next day she got upset with me for ordering it without her there. I kinda let it roll off my back. The girl at the bridal salon kept giving me better deals if I ordered that night and I didn’t want to pass it up. That week I started talking to all of the BP about when they would be available to go look for their dress. All of them live locally, except one who lives in the city. I basically asked her what days would be best for her than asked the others to see if that worked for them. Again MOH was the only one who had issues. After going back and forth, she eventually agreed to a Saturday in late July. After we found the dress, everyone went back to my house for some food and drinks. MOH left early to go meet up with her bf. Still I was fine with all of this. Now yesterday…..I get a card in the mail saying my dress is in. MOH was the first person I called. She told me she was very excited and couldn’t wait to go with me to see it. She then said she had to go cause she was in the middle of something and would call me back. She never did, which again I was fine with. I called the Bridal salon and they said I didn’t need an appointment I could come in whenever to see my dress. Of course I can’t wait I figured I would go today after work. I came in this morning and tell MOH all of this and her response was “oh really, I can’t go tonight, I have to go take care of bf’s dog, can’t you go another time” I suggest tomorrow, she has plans, and I have plans for Sunday. I told her I really didn’t want to wait, I was sorry, but I really wanted to see my dress. She gave me a bit of guilt trip. Now I feel like, wait a minute, I have tried to be flexible with my schedule to accommodate her, but she is always busy with bf. At first I felt bad for not being more accommodation, but now I’m starting to feel a little put off by her behavior! Sorry for the long story. Just needed to vent a little.
I have had a few issues with my MOH not being available for things. To be honest, I don’t really care, but she is making me feel guilty for not scheduling things when she is available. Back in June I wanted to go looking for my dress. I asked her and my aunt when would be a good day for them to go and look. I asked MOH for a list of days she would be free. The following week I made an appointment for a Saturday that worked for both MOH & my aunt. My MOH got upset and told me as it turns out she wasn’t available that day. She had a party to attend at 4pm with her boyfriend. I told her my appointment was at 1pm, maybe she could come for a little while before hand. She said she had a few family things to do in the morning. (which mind you I found out later she never went to) I told her not to worry, it was my first appointment and wanted to go to a few places she would still be able to come another time. I also made an appointment for the following Tuesday after work (we work together) to go and look at another place. I ended up finding my dress the first day, but wanted to keep my other appointment just to be sure. We went, along with my Aunt and 2 other girls from the BP to look and I wasn’t thrilled with anything. Afterwards, I said I wanted to go back to the first place to try on “my” dress again. My MOH told me she had to go cause she was meeting up with her bf and would maybe go with me the next day to look at the dress I loved. I ended up ordering my dress that night. The next day she got upset with me for ordering it without her there. I kinda let it roll off my back. The girl at the bridal salon kept giving me better deals if I ordered that night and I didn’t want to pass it up. That week I started talking to all of the BP about when they would be available to go look for their dress. All of them live locally, except one who lives in the city. I basically asked her what days would be best for her than asked the others to see if that worked for them. Again MOH was the only one who had issues. After going back and forth, she eventually agreed to a Saturday in late July. After we found the dress, everyone went back to my house for some food and drinks. MOH left early to go meet up with her bf. Still I was fine with all of this. Now yesterday…..I get a card in the mail saying my dress is in. MOH was the first person I called. She told me she was very excited and couldn’t wait to go with me to see it. She then said she had to go cause she was in the middle of something and would call me back. She never did, which again I was fine with. I called the Bridal salon and they said I didn’t need an appointment I could come in whenever to see my dress. Of course I can’t wait I figured I would go today after work. I came in this morning and tell MOH all of this and her response was “oh really, I can’t go tonight, I have to go take care of bf’s dog, can’t you go another time” I suggest tomorrow, she has plans, and I have plans for Sunday. I told her I really didn’t want to wait, I was sorry, but I really wanted to see my dress. She gave me a bit of guilt trip. Now I feel like, wait a minute, I have tried to be flexible with my schedule to accommodate her, but she is always busy with bf. At first I felt bad for not being more accommodation, but now I’m starting to feel a little put off by her behavior! Sorry for the long story. Just needed to vent a little.
