It hasn't been my days..

minniemouse Posted: Mar 30, 2004 08:50 PM

It hasn't been my days..

Does anyone feel overwhelmed with everyday life?
Work is so frustrating. There is so planning to do for a wedding. There's just so much going on with life at this time. There is not enough space in my mind to think more.
argh

sorry. just need to vent.

p.s. i think i need to buy a lottery ticket everyday

julz33 Posted: Mar 30, 2004 08:53 PM

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You are not alone. I think we all feel that way.

thiadora Posted: Mar 30, 2004 08:57 PM

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Planning a wedding is very stressful and exhausting. And the rest of our lives didn't stop just because we're planning a wedding. We still have to deal with the stresses that existed before. We all feel that way sometimes. Hang in there.

OSCARtheGROOM Posted: Mar 30, 2004 08:59 PM

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LovelyL Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:02 PM

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I can TOTALLY relate. It all gets a little overwhelming at times.
Just try to appreciate your little accomplishments and the small pleasures in life. Sometimes, if you narrow your focus to a more micro level, it actually helps!

hbradio Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:06 PM

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Posted by minniemouse

There is not enough space in my mind to think more.

I thought I was the only one who felt like this! Its nice to know I am not the only one, but not nice that you are in this situation.

All I can say is what I tell myself - just hang in there, things will be okay one day soon!

It helps me sometimes to write lists of all the things I have to do, different days and in different categories....sounds obsessive compulsive a little but it helps put things in perspective.

skew Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:08 PM

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YES! this was my rant yesterday

sassy2611 Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:13 PM

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I understand a little to well. I feel like I am never going to get ahead. The one thing that has helped is my FH has been so understanding and so have my BM. When things seem so overwhemling either my BM take me out or my FH even if it is just for a ride around the block. Some how getting out of the house with them make things so much easier. Keep smiling and know you are not alone.

minniemouse Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:14 PM

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THANK YOU ALL!!!

I just need to hang in there and do my best.
But I wish things around me will get easier so I can plan my wedding smoothly.

LIPrincess00 Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:19 PM

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I keep telling myself that I will get thru this. I keep saying I cant wait until 10/4(the day I leave for my HM).

LadyPrincess Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:33 PM

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i agree.... i wish it was 3.5.5

then part of me not - cause i feel i will have withdrawls from not more planning

SUNSHINE725 Posted: Mar 30, 2004 09:57 PM

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It hasn't been my day wither! I had one of those too! Seems like I Have been having alot of them. In a way I wish all this planning was over with & I was on my Honeymoon! But then part of me doesn't because I dont know what I will do! Your not alone! We are all in the same boat!

Spitzergirl Posted: Mar 31, 2004 10:13 AM

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I am feeling on the verge..that i could get fired.

My .....................came yesterday..and I am hanging on to 1 string.. Not to mention..that the work at my desk is piling up from 2 days ago. Like no one did it and it was intentionally...left for me. Don't they know ...We (LIW girlzz) are getting married..I am in the --state of mind..

I get a serious headache when...I am asked all these question from different family members. and friendsabout planning the wedding stuff. Ugh.......

JP&EP Posted: Mar 31, 2004 10:32 AM

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Hang in there

sweetadeline Posted: Mar 31, 2004 10:34 AM

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You're definitely not alone!!!

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 31, 2004 10:35 AM

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Yea we all feel like this sometimes especially when it is rainy and cold. But I have 2 sayings that cheer me up. The first is that you have to hit bottom sooner or later and then it just gets better and the second is from my uncle. He said nothing can be worse than a sharp stick in your eye. That part is sooo true! I know I know, I am kind of strange.

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Mar 31, 2004 10:41 AM

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I am going nuts as well. School, work, midterms, Easter, engagement party.....the works. I might need a drink tonight!!!

Bebalina Posted: Mar 31, 2004 05:04 PM

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i agree

bobbsbride Posted: Mar 31, 2004 05:05 PM

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I am constantly battling bad days!! I am just plain worn out!!

2UNTAMED Posted: Mar 31, 2004 05:47 PM

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I am going to give you girls the secrets to my planning my wedding in 8 months and not loosing my mine.

First of all, I did all the planning with my mother. No outside opinions needed.

Secondly, I consentrated on one vendor at a time. Meaning, first I met with only photographers and made a decision, then moved on to only meeting with video and made a decision, then flower and so on....... It made all the planning more enjoyable. I would schedule three to four appoints for the same day, (Saturdays & Sunday's) and do a mapquest from one vendor to the other, with 1 1/2 -2 hours between each. It worked out great for us. Hope this helps??