Its almost 10 months and I am starting to panic...

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:00 PM

Its almost 10 months and I am starting to panic...

We STILL NEED TO...

Send out the STD's..they have been sitting in my house for a month

Other things on the to do list....

Limos

Honeymoon

Invitiations

Pre Cana

Bridesmaids Dresses

Veil

Reheasal Dinner

Favors

july06bride Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:02 PM

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youll be fine.. choose one item for this month and dont focus on the others until that one task is done, then move on and do another...if you look at in bulk you will go crazy , do it slow and you will feel like you are accomplishing stuff...i would do limos first and pretty soon after choose BM dresses and have them ordered good luck

evnme Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:06 PM

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you can wait on the veil.
the saleswoman at lillettes told me to wait until january (and i'm getting married in May)

take a deep breath! no worries!!

conigs25 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:06 PM

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Kathleen
Youre the same wkd as me and i still have all those thinsg to do too and they are all things you def. dont need to do now. Invitations arent hard and neither are limos. You should send your STDs soon and maybe start thinking about BM dresses like I am but I still have NO clue what i like or colors i want. I still need a florist too.
Your HM can def wait. My friends got married in Aug and werent planning to go on a HM. Then 2 wks before the wedding, they decided to go and they got an AMAZING deal in Mexico. DONT STRESS!! You have PLENTY of time. Its not even Xmas!!!

cmastro25 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:10 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

We STILL NEED TO...

Send out the STD's..they have been sitting in my house for a month

Other things on the to do list....

Limos

Honeymoon

Invitiations

Pre Cana

Bridesmaids Dresses

Veil

Reheasal Dinner

Favors

Kathleen, I'm before you and you have lots more done than me so I guess I should freak out now.

beautyq115 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:13 PM

Re: Its almost 10 months and I am starting to panic...

Posted by cmastro25

Posted by beautyq115

We STILL NEED TO...

Send out the STD's..they have been sitting in my house for a month

Other things on the to do list....

Limos

Honeymoon

Invitiations

Pre Cana

Bridesmaids Dresses

Veil

Reheasal Dinner

Favors

Kathleen, I'm before you and you have lots more done than me so I guess I should freak out now.

No I am just crazy...I feel like I sooo much done and then people have said 'oh you don't have your BM dresses yet...you better get moving' Just littlle things like that

SweetCin704 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:13 PM

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Kathleen,

I'm in the same boat as you too & I also have not ordered my dress yet or booked hair.

beatle06 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:14 PM

Re: Its almost 10 months and I am starting to panic...

Posted by beautyq115

We STILL NEED TO...

Send out the STD's..they have been sitting in my house for a month

Other things on the to do list....

Limos

Honeymoon

Invitiations

Pre Cana

Bridesmaids Dresses

Veil

Reheasal Dinner

Favors

I have exactly the same stuff left as you mentioned above and I am getting married in May!!! You have plenty of time, i should be the one worrying.

BKtoLI Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:18 PM

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I'm getting married in April, and I don't even have half of those things done yet!!! Some of them (HM, Limos, BM dresses) we are just getting rolling on them this month!!! So don't worry you have plenty of time!!!

Bridesmaid dresses only take 3-4 months to come in tops. It's not like some wedding gowns that can take up a year. You can order your BM dresses up to January-February!!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:19 PM

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Don't worry! I'm in the same boat, and I also haven't registered yet. Just pick one task at a time, and it will get done. This week, our big task is to get our passports done

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:23 PM

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Kathleen I am at 5 months and I think we need a support group.

CKJ906 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:31 PM

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Relax. There are girls that can put a wedding together in months. You have plenty of time!!

I think everyone gets a little crazy on here we all have a little bridezilla in us I know people that go for hair and makeup trials 2 weeks before their wedding. It willl all get done dont worry

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 12, 2005 10:44 PM

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Posted by CKJ906
I know people that go for hair and makeup trials 2 weeks before their wedding.

LOL! That will be me. I dont have enough hair for a trial that would please me and if by that time I don't like what my stylist can do? CHOPPITY CHOP CHOP CHOP!!! I get my butchy short hair back!

hmpena Posted: Sep 13, 2005 08:31 AM

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Sweetie,

you have time! Registering for pre-cana is a snap. You have time for everything else. Just set aside some time to mail out the stds. Then figure out what you need to do next. And go on from there!

If it makes you feel better, I am getting married in 4 months and still haven't booked my limos yet!

kissy27 Posted: Sep 13, 2005 08:41 AM

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Don't panic! Everything will come together just fine! You still have time!

I am approaching 6 months at the end of the month & I still have to get
tiara & veil
invitations
BM/GM gifts
MOB dress
unity candle

Of course you get nervous, but don't, things will fall into place!

SuzBride Posted: Sep 13, 2005 08:49 AM

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I am before you, and I have A TON more things that I still need to do. Remember that comparing to other LIweddings girls can be depressing cause alot of them are 'super planners', but i think you are right on schedule (or even ahead of schedule) in comparison to the average Long Island bride. Just get those STDs out and you should be fine

MayBride06 Posted: Sep 13, 2005 08:51 AM

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Staring to get somewhat nervous too. Thank goodness I booked everything so early. Now with school starting again, I am getting crazy. How will I clean my FH underwear and plan a wedding too?? I guess I will have to explain to FH that I can't wash his underwear any more!!