As some of you may have read, one of my BMs made a comment to me about being in the wedding. The final decision is that she has decided not to be in the wedding because she feels that the othe girls in the wedding party are closer to me. I really dont know what she is talking about....I asked her because she is a close friend of mine..but I am not mad at her at all. She wasnt very interested in anything that was happening with the wedding and she even skipped out the only event that I did with the BMs so far...I think its better this way, even though I would have liked her to be a BM. Maybe its not worth the aggrivation of her not showing up to things. Oh well. We are still friends and she is still coming to the wedding.
SIBride06
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I just had the tough job of asking one of my BM to step down because I felt she wasn't that close to me. I know I made the right decision. We hardly had a friendship and I regretted asking her. I know how you feel. Things will work out.
tracy2246
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You know how I feel...I am sorry to hear that but in the long run you really only want people to be involved who really want to be there.
Unfortunately in my case not only did the GM and BM step down but a very long friendship is over...
Now you go and enjoy every minute with the people who would not miss the action for anything.
MrsStefan
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I told her that I want people there on that day with me who can share in my excitement. she didnt really seem to care much about the wedding. She is the one who brought it up, but I know I would have if she didnt. At least we can stay friends
cindyandkevin
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I'm sorry that you lost a BM but I'm glad you were able to keep her as a friend. It seems that she was being honest with you and it's better this way then dealing with someone who doesn't really want to be in the BP.
MrsStefan
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I am happy that I am able to keep my frienship with her, although I question whether or not I consider it a friendship considering she hasnt been around much in the past year. I dunno...its funny how peolpe change.
scocaj
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I am sorry to hear that Krista.. The whole bridal party can make you crazy.. I personal think she was worng, it is your day and about you.. and what you wanted.. but it is her lose.. and you dont need the stress..
one of my friends I didnt wind up asking.. I asked her to do a reading.. she is just starting to talk to me now.. b/c she thought I was a bad friend, and I was wrong not to ask her...
People are funny.. at least you still have your friendship...
