I am really excited but totally stressed.....I just looked at the countdown....only 40 days!!!!!! I don't know weather to or b/c there is SO MUCH THAT I STILL NEED TO DO. I think I need a I don't feel prepared for everything. My dress isn't done, my hair isn't decided, didn't dye the shoes yet. Still have to sign with the florist. OMG. WHat is going to happen. I still have to order the little chocolate favors, and I have to travel all week for work next week. I don't know what I'm going to do....I've been freaking out at all the vendors, yelling at them for not calling me back, and I can't sleep at night. ok vent over.
heatherandrichie
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Sorry to hear that sweetie. Let us know if there is anything we can do!
BunnyBride
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Oh no It's going to be OK! Your dress will be done on time and it only takes a week or so for shoes. Just think, your gonna be married in 40 days!! It's going to be wonderful! Try not to worry too much
CHRISTINEB
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Take a deep breath and then make a list.. You will feel better once the list is made and you begin crossing things off that are complete.
Ericab1980
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wow..just breathe..relax..all will fall into place..eventually..Good Luck with everything!
dplehat
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So sorry you feel frazzled but remember it will all be worth it in the end. Just take a deep breath between sips of wine you will be feeling better in no time at all
Dnn518
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Don't get all flustered. Just try to make a list and organize yourself so you know what needs to get done. I am sure that will keep you on track. Don't worry about anything!
Marchbride07
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You will do it! It will all come together! Just BREATHE
bettybcafe
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Yes..breathe..this is natural..you feel like nothing is going right, but believe me everything will start falling into place
MF9282
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Everything will get done plus if your traveling do sum stuff on the plane and rest a bit so u will be ready to finish up all ur last minute errinds!
TLC1018
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Take a deep breath...everything will get done! I know it seems like things are overwhelming right now, but have no fear...you're wedding day will be amazing!!
PegaLega
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aw dont go crazy-take one thing at a time and you will get it done
Eva-and-John 07
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Just set small goals. From my experience so far big picture is terrifying!!!
Now I'm new at this wedding planning but I can tell you what I did when I got overwhelmed my last semester of college.
I took a sticky pad and wrote down evey little detail that needed to be done. Now this was a little terrifying at first but I put them all up on my wall in my room. Every day I would promise myself I would remove x number of stickies. As I got to pull those suckers off the wall I felt so accomplished. Plus since I knew everything was written down I was less nervous about being overwhelmed and forgetting something.
You're day will be here so soon and it will be the best day of your life!!!! Feel better
snydl40
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Hang in there-FM if you need help.
cmrcmr0430
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OOHHH!! Don't worry!! Everything will be just fine! Sit back, take a deep breath, put a smile on and attack one task at a time! If you need help, ask me!
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I know exactly how u feel, I am getting married the same day as you ...and at midnight we are down to 38 days. I am STRESSED! Every day I am freaking out about something else. I didnt get my dress altered yet, response date was yesterday and still missing 32. I am just waiting for it to be worth it!
onelove1
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We all go through it. Just keep thinking it's worth it in the end.
Future Mrs.
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I do not know what I would do without this site because everyone else....even thought they know me...thinks I am nuts. Its only other brides that really get it. you guys are right. As long as I breathe, and make notes....(LOVE the post it idea) I will get it done. I just hope I didn't forget anything.
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Have you considered hiring a coordinator to help lighten your load and responsibilities?
