It's only 8am and I already had a freakout....

soontobecruz Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:13 AM

It's only 8am and I already had a freakout....

This is not a good way to start the morning....

Long story short a BM and I had some disagreements yesterday thourgh text message. Im not getting into it bc of lurkers but I it really made me feel like crap (although I did nothing wrong). So anyway, I finally told FH the whole story this morning. I am still upset by it and trying to just let it go.

So then FH starts talking about his tux and asking when he should go check them out. I said we can look whevever but order them with your groomsmen about 4 months before (i think thats the norm). So he starts saying I can't go with him. Now, I'll admit I am a CONTROL FREAK when it comes to this wedding. However Fh knew I wanted to go for a while now, and never had a problem with it. I have a 'vision' of what I want our day to be, and how I want our pics to look and as innocent as his comment was it totally put me over the edge. I started crying, freaking out, I actually said.. 'you're going to do everything you can to ruin MY DAY arn't you'....

Yea total BRIDEZILLA! I have never said that before I was just so edgy and I lost it. He finally said he was kidding. Which he wouldn't have been had I not freaked. He said I can go and we will look but he won't wear something he hates. I understand and agree with that.

So the b-zilla crown today, goes to me...Oh and and I am still annoyed about my BM

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stinenandy2010 Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:15 AM

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aww don't worry shauna, we all have bad days and it was probably just stress, we all know that your not a bridezilla 24/7!

Jna2010 Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:15 AM

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sorry about your bm, hope thing settle between you to

but @ that bridezilla moment HHAHAHAAAAA aw poor fh, at least heknows how to get around it

barbtony Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:16 AM

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You're entitled to a freak out every now and then...I think we all are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As far as your BM, I'm sure it will all work out.

Lsorrent Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:18 AM

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Awwww Sweetie, don't worry, you're allowed

That's the difference between Matt and Mike. Once you start crying at least Matt fesses up and gives in. Mike only makes fun of me more.

I've already asked him about tuxes........and whether or not I can trust him and his brother to do the right thing........his answer 'No.'

So I have to make sure I send his parents and my dad. That way I won't end up with a husband and GM's wearing seersucker suits, coattails, top hats, and canes

And you have EVERY right to be annoyed at your BM.

Future Mrs H Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:19 AM

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awwww- we all have our bridesilla moments. I hppe everything works out with the text message person

StaceyWill Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:23 AM

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Awwwww!! We all have those days-don't worry...
I hope things work out with you and your BM.

soontobecruz Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:23 AM

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I actually want a fun tux for him. I would LOVE for him to wear a black tux black shirt and vest and a white tie, and his GM to wear black tux, shirt, and vest and a fuschia tie.

I think it would look AWESOME and totally go with the look I want. Oh he is getting them adidas shell-tops to wear with their tuxes at the reception so it would look so fun and trendy which is the look I want!

He is still on the fence abou it. More about the fuschia ties, but I think I can convince him *if* I am there.

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MisyMiss32 Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:25 AM

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Awww...hang in there honey!!

MrsSoto Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:27 AM

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awww Shauna, i completley get it when that one thing FH says or does just puts you over. feel better xoxo

christine2010 Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:29 AM

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we all have moments like this so don't be hard on yourself. about the BM issue, i have had my fair share of fights with BMs via text & e-mail. it really does put you into a horrible mood.

soontobecruz Posted: Dec 11, 2009 08:53 AM

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Thanks girls... I still don't know how to shake off the BM stuff but I just have to get over it. I know I am not going to feel any better if I bring it up. Infact I think it would only make things worse.