It's starting.

Stress.

Wedding-related stress.

I was talking with my best friend last night (she got married in 2006) and I asked her if it's normal for me to have one day blur into the next...like, I couldn't remember if I had talked with my mom yesterday morning or Monday night ().

Apparently the next 73 days are going to be like this. She confirmed that the final stretch is both fun and terribly stressful.

And my lack of sleep for the past two weeks? Yup, all wedding-stress related.

Yay.

I feel it.. and it is scaring me

My stress stop actually right after the RD, I think because at that time everything was paid off. just try to have one day out of the week where you do not think about the wedding I know its hard the 2 mths before the wedding are usually the most stessful. All this stress will be worth it after you will be married

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Posted by jilliibabii

Honestly, it's *surprised* me how true this is. I broke down crying the other day for no reason at all other than wedding stress/PMS. LOL! FH is a little afraid of me at the moment.

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It surprises me too.

A lot of my issues are the 'WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO ME?' thing. At what point did I give a flying fcuk about this kind of stuff? I'm questioning a lot about myself lately. Not BIG questions (like 'am I ready for this?') but stupid shyt (like 'what font should the addresses be in, and does it need to coordinate with the font on the invites?')

my set in a week or 2 ago.... and get worse everyday.
i actually told one of my bridesmaids the other day i was done with all the planning and deligating it to her until the wedding.... it didn't work haha

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

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Posted by jilliibabii

Honestly, it's *surprised* me how true this is. I broke down crying the other day for no reason at all other than wedding stress/PMS. LOL! FH is a little afraid of me at the moment.

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It surprises me too.

A lot of my issues are the 'WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT TO ME?' thing. At what point did I give a flying fcuk about this kind of stuff? I'm questioning a lot about myself lately. Not BIG questions (like 'am I ready for this?') but stupid shyt (like 'what font should the addresses be in, and does it need to coordinate with the font on the invites?')

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Ugh I know exactly what you mean. And then I flip like a switch from 'I just don't even care anymore, do anything.' back to overthinking every little decision. And then the money aspect of it, scares the pants off me. Then I sit down and do my calculations and realize, oh no, we're right on track, and then I freak out again the next week.

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Posted by Lsorrent

Oh please I've been having a breakdown at least once a week lately, and I'm sure it's not going to get any better.

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I feel like I need to walk around with an airplane barf bag.

I think that will be my new avatar.

with 9 days left I can confirm that. I go to sleep late every night due to wedding sh*tT and i wake up every morning shot from teh night before. I upgraged my morning coffee from medium to large to wake my *** up... my neck hurts from my huge purse filled with folders and wedding cr@p. All for 1 beautiful day!!!!

i'm actually pretty calm and relaxed right now with 36 days to go and it totally surprises me. everyone at work keeps asking if im getting nervous and keep saying no! i have my little list of things that still need to get done, but otherwise i feel ok.

ask me again a couple of days before the wedding and i'll most likely have a completely different answer lol.

if you think its bad now
wait till one week before the big day