it's upsetting to say. . . .

suzie411 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:34 PM

it's upsetting to say. . . .

I can't wait until the wedding is over!!!!!

I can't stand anyone else judging my decisions and sharing their opinions!! About everrrryy detail.

I'm also sad to say that I won't miss planning. I love the creative side, and it's so fun researching for ideas, but I really just want to be married and enjoy my honeymoon.

(sorry to be a downer ladies, I just had a bad wedding related day)

LKatz1029 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:35 PM

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I hear ya!!!!!!!!!!! This had brought unnecessary stress (although more good stuff happening than bad) but ughhhhh seriously???? lol
I agree with you 100%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thatcrazypirate Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:37 PM

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Trust me when I tell you I feel the exact same way. I honestly thought I was the only one who felt like that.

jovigirl414 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:38 PM

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Aww, sorry you had a bad day ...

I understand it gets super frustrating when you get all the nay-sayers for little details that you are happy about. I get it all the time. But I try not to talk to those people about the wedding plans, and they get offended about that! It's a lose-lose situation. Just know that your day will be perfect, regardless of what others say. Don't let anyone take away your happiness (I know, easier said than done).

suzie411 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:38 PM

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i know. we briefly discussed doing a small destination event, or eloping. I was afraid that I would be missing something if i did that.

well. . .i would have saved myself a lot of tears and stress

MsRtoMrsK Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:39 PM

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You're not alone!!!!! I told someone the other day that my wedding was on July 31...my friend looked at me and said, no it's on July 29th, your mini honeymoon is on the 31st!!!

Shows you where my mind is!!

LKatz1029 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:42 PM

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Posted by MsRtoMrsK

You're not alone!!!!! I told someone the other day that my wedding was on July 31...my friend looked at me and said, no it's on July 29th, your mini honeymoon is on the 31st!!!

Shows you where my mind is!!

It's ok... everyone thinks my wedding is on 11.11.11 (I have no idea why, I guess cause the date's cool?) so no one will even show up to mine I bet lol

suzie411 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 10:50 PM

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Posted by LKatz1029

Posted by MsRtoMrsK

You're not alone!!!!! I told someone the other day that my wedding was on July 31...my friend looked at me and said, no it's on July 29th, your mini honeymoon is on the 31st!!!

Shows you where my mind is!!

It's ok... everyone thinks my wedding is on 11.11.11 (I have no idea why, I guess cause the date's cool?) so no one will even show up to mine I bet lol

thanks for the laugh!

but I'm sure you'll have an awesome crowd!

mtk1605 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 11:19 PM

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Posted by suzie411

I can't wait until the wedding is over!!!!!

I can't stand anyone else judging my decisions and sharing their opinions!! About everrrryy detail.

I'm also sad to say that I won't miss planning. I love the creative side, and it's so fun researching for ideas, but I really just want to be married and enjoy my honeymoon.

(sorry to be a downer ladies, I just had a bad wedding related day)

I said the Sam exact thing today to my boss! Although I am not even going on a HM this year!

justnicethings Posted: Mar 18, 2011 11:23 PM

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you're really close!!!!! start a honeymoon countdown, you'll get pumped!

cc2011 Posted: Mar 19, 2011 01:10 AM

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I'm completely with you on this!!!! Feeeling the exact same way....

IrishAli Posted: Mar 19, 2011 08:16 AM

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I agree!

Some of this process has been really stressful, so I agree- I kind if can't wait for it all to be over!

CristinD83 Posted: Mar 19, 2011 10:51 AM

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I hear you!!! Try not to stress, I know its easier said than done but it'll be here and gone so fast! ...I just cant wait for HM!!!!

merbride Posted: Mar 19, 2011 11:47 AM

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my thoughts exactly!!! Im with you 100%!

tac30 Posted: Mar 19, 2011 01:39 PM

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i sort of agree..... I'm tired with everyone telling me i shouldn't do this or i shouldn't do that and stuff like that....it's my wedding i should do things the way i want them!!

madamsireeda213 Posted: Mar 19, 2011 03:10 PM

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No I totally feel u! I can't wait to have my carefree life back! Can't wait to be able to spend my money on things besides money boxes and cake knives!! Can't wait to stop getting opinions I didn't ask for thrown at me! I love my FH and I'm going to love my wedding but I can't wait till the planning and everything else is over!

ImgonnabeMrsC Posted: Mar 20, 2011 05:04 PM

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haha I know, I love the planning, but I want it here already!!

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Mar 20, 2011 05:10 PM

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I feel the EXACT same way!!!!

FutureJOC Posted: Mar 20, 2011 06:52 PM

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I feel the same way. I did enjoy the planning but after 2 years, I just want the wedding day to be here, enjoy it, and for FH and I to start our married lives. FH is getting impatient as well! LOL