I've completely lost it -fighting back tears at work

InLuvWithMyBF Posted: Aug 19, 2011 01:55 PM

I've completely lost it -fighting back tears at work

I know you ladies told me to be strong but Im going to break down. I feel a panic attack coming on...

I can't take this whole damn thing anymore...not the planning but the personalites involved, the ppl i have to interact with and their selfish ways.

I won't go into detail cuz i might get in trouble at work but I need to get away from everyone.

I've been nothing but a nice person...to everyone and i everyone treats me like crap.

I feel so abused I can't take it.

I wish I could tell u guys everything but I can't...I just need venting post :(

Richiesgirl Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:04 PM

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whatever it is. I hope you get through it-just take a deep breath and TRY to relax.

DANAnPATRICK Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:05 PM

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Do yourself a BIG favor and stop worrying about other people that dont deserve your kind heart.

The only 2 people in this world that matter right now are you and your FH and the beautiful wedding you 2 are about to have....no matter who's there that day, who's been there along the way etc.
Its YOUR lives and you determine the fate of it so if that means removing hurtful or useless people from it than so be it.
Hope you feel better

MrsLaT2be Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:08 PM

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feel better!! the only people that matter during the wedding process are you and your FH. Don't worry about anyone else's opinions/criticisms etc. It will all get washed away anyway on your wedding day when you're having the most fabulous time! Think happy thoughts!

chilly313 Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:10 PM

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Hang in there. It WILL get better. FH keeps telling me that I should stop with so many details for the wedding because they are stressing me out - but I keep tellinghim that its not the deatails - I love all that stuff- its other people and their nonsense that is stressing me out. Try to focus on the big picture and what this is really all about - You and FH starting your lives together. When all is said and done, that's the only thing that really matters.

IrishAli Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:14 PM

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So sorry. The best thing you can do for yourself is to take a deep breath, and stop worrying about others who don't deseve your friendship

merelynn10 Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:15 PM

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rosatemp Posted: Aug 19, 2011 02:42 PM

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Posted by DANAnPATRICK

Do yourself a BIG favor and stop worrying about other people that dont deserve your kind heart.

The only 2 people in this world that matter right now are you and your FH and the beautiful wedding you 2 are about to have....no matter who's there that day, who's been there along the way etc.
Its YOUR lives and you determine the fate of it so if that means removing hurtful or useless people from it than so be it.
Hope you feel better

i feel like this too at times but dana is 100% right and i have to take this advice also

spdy540 Posted: Aug 19, 2011 03:15 PM

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VCanizalez Posted: Aug 19, 2011 03:29 PM

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OMG I am sos orry

chica

I am here for ya./.. FM if u wanna talk.....

So sorry chcia

K0ddie Posted: Aug 19, 2011 03:30 PM

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madamsireeda213 Posted: Aug 19, 2011 03:31 PM

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i totally know how you feel!! its hard dealing with some many people so many personalities so much planning! i have panic attacks almost everyday but i calm myself down 1) with a bottle of wine and 2) looking at my FH even when we are really p*ssed off at each other and realizing that he is the most important thing to me right now and this is our moment,no one else and the true friends and family who truly love us and wants us to succeed will shine through all the other phony ones!!! stay strong hun!!

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Aug 19, 2011 03:48 PM

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I know how you feel! Sometimes I wish I was a bridezilla so that I would flip out on people instead of just getting hurt by them. Hang in there girly, all that matters is you and your hubby - eff everyone else!!!!

LATOYA Posted: Aug 19, 2011 04:16 PM

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People are such jerks! I have no problem turning into a bridezilla. I just flipped on my bm because she wanted to invite some random dude (she's not dating him she just met him) I told her if she wants to pay for his plated that's fine. This is a wedding not a bbq u just can't go inviting people especially since I don't know them.

Anyway my point is its ok to be a bridezilla for a few minutes some people just know the right button to push. Feel better babe