I've had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dannisayz Posted: Jun 10, 2008 04:50 PM

I've had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

FSILs keep giving FH and I an attitude when we remind them about getting their shoes and fitted for their dresses. One of the last things they said to FH when he tried to remind them was 'we have lives you know.' And of course they said it really snotty.

It takes exactly a month for them to have the dresses ready. My wedding is a month from TOMORROW! If they wait any longer, they will have to pay extra for their dresses to be rushed. It's not like I harass them everyday either. I think I've said something 3 times since the dresses came in 3 months ago. I don't understand their problem!!!

I'm tired of FH's family. They all wait till the last minute for everything. His mother's brother waited till today to RSVP (the RSVP date was June 1st). His grandmother (FMIL's mother) and her daughters (who are INSANE) haven't responded and won't return our phonecalls. My parents need to have a count by Friday so we can make the place cards.

I really hate his family right now.

futuremrsfab Posted: Jun 10, 2008 05:03 PM

Re: I've had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry I dont know what to say- but sending

dannisayz Posted: Jun 10, 2008 05:04 PM

Re: I've had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh . . . now it gets better. FMIL is now giving FH shite because she has no family coming to the wedding except her brother. It's not his fault that she's an arrogant b!tch and alienated her whole family!

ItalianBride428 Posted: Jun 10, 2008 05:09 PM

Re: I've had it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I FEEL YOUR PAIN. and I apologize for lacking some suggestions....it is a hard situation because you dont want to start tension..or rather...increase the tension. Tell your FH to kick their ***!

I am having similar issues. I am very organized and want everything to be set and ready to go so everyone doesnt have to rush around and do things at the last minute...but FH family is not like that, love them to death but cant STAND the procrastination.