I'VE HAD IT! vent

megan_gallagher Posted: Jun 18, 2009 03:40 PM

I'VE HAD IT! vent

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MrsSoto Posted: Jun 18, 2009 03:55 PM

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im sorry you are dealing with this!

lolalovesacroat Posted: Jun 18, 2009 04:07 PM

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My biggest suggestion is to step away from the wedding, work, and enjoy a day to yourself. I mean you can stay in watch movie, shut off all your outside world devices and enjoy it!

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Jun 18, 2009 04:27 PM

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I agree with having a day to yourself. Sometimes ya just need to get away from everything

drivwal Posted: Jun 18, 2009 04:58 PM

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whoa, you need to take a breather here. planning your wedding is a fun time in your life, as soon as if gives you stress just leave it alone for a week or two and do other stuff, then come back to it. everything will work out. just remind your FH that you cannot do everything all at once and things need to be planned beforehand. you will find your vendors but if you need to work some other stuff out first then wait a little while on the vendors, no big deal there! don't worry and try not to stress, you are going to have a heart attack going through all this stuff all at once!

BellaBride27 Posted: Jun 18, 2009 05:14 PM

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Take a deep breathe...relaxx...def take a day for yourself...go pamper urself for a day to unwind and let your stress go away ...hang in there : )

jenturch Posted: Jun 18, 2009 07:02 PM

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Whoa! You to need to get back to the basics. Sounds like life is getting in the way of your relationship! Maybe have a date night and remind each other what it is that you love about the other. Remember its about the marriage and not the wedding! Try not to loose sight of what's really important- your love for each other. The other 'stuff' will come and go!

Try this site it has some great inexpensive/free ideas

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/features/43-date-night-ideas

StaceYums81 Posted: Jun 18, 2009 08:07 PM

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Take a deep breath and try not to get worked up. Don't stab him with a pen...

sophisticat13 Posted: Jun 18, 2009 08:11 PM

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lol I wanted to stab FH with a pen plenty of times during the wedding planning process. To me it was a sign of needing to put 'the wedding' on hold for a couple of days. Step back and try to relax...don't lose sight of the reason you are getting married.